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hpl111

Member since
November 2022

409 posts

Hi everyone,

when social services wrote their report, they said there is "a risk of future emotional harm" for our children, if my husband (accused of making and distributing indecent images on kik) would keep on living with us.

This report was written while he was on bail, he has since been released under investigation and he is now allowed to live with us again, provided he's never left alone with the kids and that I sleep in our children's room at night.

I am just wondering why social services wrote "risk of future emotional harm"? Shouldn't it say "risk of future sexual harm"?

Does anyone know? x

Posted Sun January 15, 2023 6:19pmReport post

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1175 posts

Hi,

My first sw wrote risk of neglect/emotional abuse which there is no evidence of at all. I can only assume that they were thinking that it would sound better than risk of sexual harm as our daughter wasn't born at that point and my older children had decided on no contact. I presume it related to my emotional state and the risk that them having knowledge of my persons offences left them at risk of emotional distress. They cannot prove risk of sexual harm without even knowing your ohs risk level and even then without an independent assessment it would be difficult to prove the risk posed to his own children. Emotional harm requires less proof as it doesn't just relate to your oh but the potential future repercussions of telling your children or them finding out through other sources. Again, this is just my opinion. Hopefully someone with more knowledge will respond xxx

Posted Sun January 15, 2023 9:09pmReport post

hpl111

Member since
November 2022

409 posts

Thank you, that makes a lot of sense x

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hpl111

Member since
November 2022

409 posts

@Dragonmama I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I think sometimes children don't realise that these "little" lies can have serious, long - lasting repercussions.

Trust me, I am happy that "risk of future sexual harm" isn't listed. I am just surprised given that he is accused of making/distributing indecent images.

Posted Tue January 17, 2023 10:19pmReport post

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