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Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 2:51pmReport post

Afternoon All

I hope you are all keeping ok under the circumstances

I have not been on for a couple of weeks I kind of hit a low point in this never ending journey not sure why but with the xmas festivities etc I got myself in a bit of a spiral but I am back to my usual self again

Smile I hope you and your son are doing ok xx

Daffodil

Member since
March 2022

965 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 2:58pmReport post

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Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2538 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 3:01pmReport post

Ahhh bless you - I was wondering why you hadn't been on the forum. I hope you are ok, these glitches are horrible, think reality likes to give you a slap along the way.

I was well and truly glad when Christmas and new year were out the way. It's hard when your supposed to be jolly and you feel crap!



Hope you son is ok - did he get his education sorted? All ok with me, not a lot to report really. My big boy continues to enjoy art class and winter gardening.

you take care and glad your back xxxxx

Seaside

Member since
July 2022

558 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 3:17pmReport post

Ahhhh bless you Upset I have been thinking of you and your son so much lately.

You are such an incredibly brave person and have been so very kind and supportive to me.

Take care of yourself.

Sending you so much love and strength xx

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 3:29pmReport post

Ladies as always I appreciate your kind words of strength and positivity xx

Smile my son is ok we have a visit this week he has his papers through for his degree which will hopefully start next week I think its business economics not sure how it works in prison though but it will give him something to concentrate on x

Glad your son is doing ok

Thank you Daff hope your ok

And Seaside I read your post about it been your sons Birthday yesterday :-( I can imagine how you both were so sending hugs xx

Lola53

Member since
May 2021

269 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 3:36pmReport post

Upset Mum, hope you're OK, you're a big part of this forum! xx

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 3:58pmReport post

Thank you Lola53

How are you and how is your son doing?xx

Lola53

Member since
May 2021

269 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 5:04pmReport post

Hi Upset Mum, I'm doing OK thank you. We've just had his court date through, some 20 months after 'the knock' - it's obviously thrown him a bit but hopefully it's one step closer to being able to move on xx

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Thu January 19, 2023 5:37pmReport post

Hi Lola53

Glad to hear your all ok x

It took 20 months for my son also its shocking

A step nearer to knowing what you have to deal with

I can imagine it has unsettled him but he has you by his side xx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2538 posts

Posted Mon January 23, 2023 2:43pmReport post

How did the visit go - did you say you had a visit this weekend? X

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Mon January 23, 2023 7:57pmReport post

Evening Smile x

Hope.your all ok

We had a visit Saturday morning it was nice to see him and he is ok but still awful having to say our goodbyes as always xx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2538 posts

Posted Mon January 23, 2023 9:05pmReport post

Bless - I bet the time flies too.... then a painful bye....

I keep thinking when I see my son I won't recognise him - keep looking at photos to remind me :(

we spoke earlier - and he was in good spirits after an afternoon of digging up tree roots!

Edited Mon January 23, 2023 9:06pm

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2385 posts

Posted Tue January 24, 2023 6:23pmReport post

Evening Smile x

Glad your son is in good spirits it makes it more bearable for us dosent it xx

Maij

Member since
December 2020

287 posts

Posted Wed January 25, 2023 8:58pmReport post

Hi everyone

best wishes to you all.

lola53 , think of you often wondering how you all are. i am pleased you now have a date. I am praying for a positive outcome for your son . Big hug x

its such a sad tough journey this , and all this negative energy spent worrying about whats going to happen . We need a virtual holding hands group hug xx



maij x

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2538 posts

Posted Wed January 25, 2023 9:10pmReport post

Let's do it - agree on a time/day and we'll have a virtual hug!

Edited Wed January 25, 2023 9:14pm

Lola53

Member since
May 2021

269 posts

Posted Thu January 26, 2023 9:11amReport post

Hi Maij, I often think of you too - our journeys are quite similar I think. I am feeling a bit broken today; we had a meeting with the solicitor yesterday and it made it all real again after a long time of drifting along in limbo. But, we carry on! Hope you're OK and I love the group hug idea! xx