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Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

275 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 2:46pmReport post

Knock on 21st November I have been surviving being the strong person I have always been and now it seems I am drowning, my daughter has councillor and oh has mental health nurse and also s.a.a support group with a sponsor but where do I turn please ????

loulou74

Member since
September 2022

255 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 2:54pmReport post

You could try counselling for yourself. StopSO have a self-referral option which links you with someone trained in these offences. Or phone the StopItNow helpline. Have you told any friends or family?

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

275 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 3:11pmReport post

I have told my friend she has been so good but all she keeps saying is she is worried for me and wants me to see someone, I need to be strong for my oh his mental health really isn't good

Scared3546

Member since
November 2022

32 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 3:15pmReport post

I just had a session with a stop so counsellor which was very helpful



ive also started private counselling with a counsellor who has given me a reduced rate that she reaerves for some clients x

Newlady

Member since
April 2021

644 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 4:51pmReport post

I got free therapy through my go mental health nurse, she hurried it along as I was dealing with a lot at the time. But seems there's not much lire for us. I say to my person he's lucky, he's a whole team looking after him. Makes me feel resentful sometimes but I'm gkad he's getting the help.

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

275 posts

Posted Sat January 21, 2023 5:07pmReport post

Trying to turn positives into negatives but some days there seems to be more negatives, my house has never been so organised and i have returned to my crafting anything to distract me, I have also been completing a journal of this journey, I think I will call stop it now and see how I get on its only oh that has called them so far