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Losteverything

Member since
September 2022

216 posts

Posted Mon January 23, 2023 11:49pmReport post

My ex partner has been arrested for making and distributing iioc on kik. He has never admitted this to me but after speaking to the police I am sure he has done it. I know that he wiped his phone and I am getting paranoid that he is going to get away with it. I am so worried that they won't find anything and he will walk away with nfa. I worry that he will then get on with his life as if nothing has happened and he will meet someone else who has children/ grandchildren! I also think that he should pay for what he's done and shouldn't get away with it when he has ruined my life!!

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2538 posts

Posted Tue January 24, 2023 3:02amReport post

I'm sure none of us on here think people who commit these crimes should 'get away with it' to be honest. Your thoughts are correct Losteverything.

We discuss how our loved ones have been treated and all aspects on this journey we've been through with them but I've never heard anyone undermine or condone the crime. I remain mortified at the thought of what my son was looking at and sharing...... plus devastating our lives too. It needed to be 'dealt with'.

Keep strong, life will unfold xxxxx

Edited Tue January 24, 2023 3:11am

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

994 posts

Posted Tue January 24, 2023 2:32pmReport post

Hi,

Try to keep an open mind with what the police say. If they have the evidence they need then he will be charged and dealt with accordingly. There have been cases on here where it actually wasn't the person arrested that had committed the crime. I can understand that you're hurting, it is an incredibly traumatic experience. I'd avoid speaking to the police if possible because this can be a very long process and you'll drive yourself insane with all the what ifs that they can't answer. Seek some counselling for yourself and try to rebuild your life in a way that you deem best for you xxx

Daffodil

Member since
March 2022

965 posts

Posted Tue January 24, 2023 3:00pmReport post

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