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So we finally have some good news after 20 months/ two months past sentencing our ss cin plan is looking to finally be closed and my hubby is to have a phased return home over 4 weeks hopefully starting from next weekend.
SS are doing the usual trying to put it on po and visor but luckily they stated that it's nothing to do with them and they are both happy for him to return.
So hopefully another 4/6 weeks and we can finally say goodbye to them and start moving forward
SS are doing the usual trying to put it on po and visor but luckily they stated that it's nothing to do with them and they are both happy for him to return.
So hopefully another 4/6 weeks and we can finally say goodbye to them and start moving forward
Congratulations!!! So lovely to hear good news xx
Hi Scaredandconfused,
That's great news xx
That's great news xx
Amazing news, congratulations xxx
How wonderful x
I'm delighted to hear this, you both deserve it you've worked and fought so hard and I'm sure this post will give others hope for the future x
It's so nice to read postive outcomes. We're only 6 months into this so still no charges yet, husband Rui. I just want to get back to trying to be a normal family.
Lovely news scaredandconfused xx
Brilliant news! So happy for you that you can now start to rebuild your family.
Hi everyone thanks for the replies I have been trying to limit coming on here it messes with my head.
I'm in need of a bit of help if any of you lovely lot can help. We was meant to do the safety plan to start the phased return and closing of case yesterday. Well that hasn't happened our sw manager now is trying to make things harder. I spoke to my hubby's probation yesterday and even she and the visor are confused as to why they need another meeting when they only had one two weeks ago and told her what they thought.
My question is does anyone have anything that's worth putting in the safety plan we've been told to basically make a list of what we can think of and email it over. Basically doing their job for them
Thanks everyone
I'm in need of a bit of help if any of you lovely lot can help. We was meant to do the safety plan to start the phased return and closing of case yesterday. Well that hasn't happened our sw manager now is trying to make things harder. I spoke to my hubby's probation yesterday and even she and the visor are confused as to why they need another meeting when they only had one two weeks ago and told her what they thought.
My question is does anyone have anything that's worth putting in the safety plan we've been told to basically make a list of what we can think of and email it over. Basically doing their job for them
Thanks everyone
Hiya
Have you had a look at the parents protect website at their guide for a safety plan? https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/create-a-family-safety-plan.htm Have they said if when he returns home he will have to be supervised?
I have had to supervised contact for over 3.5years and I am exausted no supportive family so please factor that into the safety plan.
You need to show what you have done to help protect your children ie safeguarding courses ?LFF NSPCC what work you have done to help your children keep safe? This will be different dependant on how old your children are like NSPCC pantosauraus or books about body boundary's? I think this work is important anyway for kids. Who have the children got if they wished to disclose something ie close aunt/you teacher?
Also perhaps think about some situations like if you needed an ambulance what would be able to to put in place to look after the kids assuming he has to be supervised
search safety plans on here there is some really good information on here
take care my lovely
Have you had a look at the parents protect website at their guide for a safety plan? https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/create-a-family-safety-plan.htm Have they said if when he returns home he will have to be supervised?
I have had to supervised contact for over 3.5years and I am exausted no supportive family so please factor that into the safety plan.
You need to show what you have done to help protect your children ie safeguarding courses ?LFF NSPCC what work you have done to help your children keep safe? This will be different dependant on how old your children are like NSPCC pantosauraus or books about body boundary's? I think this work is important anyway for kids. Who have the children got if they wished to disclose something ie close aunt/you teacher?
Also perhaps think about some situations like if you needed an ambulance what would be able to to put in place to look after the kids assuming he has to be supervised
search safety plans on here there is some really good information on here
take care my lovely
Thankyou I'll have look. I've been supervising for 20 months so far. They haven't mentioned if it will be supervised or not. We luckily have both sets of grandparents and in emergencies they have been on hand to have one of them if the other needs taking somewhere.
They are both under 5 the oldest knows about PANTS and I've done a 10 week safeguarding course through a family worker. Spoke to lff and everything the sw said we can't actually do anymore than what we have she's just not giving us any information at all
They are both under 5 the oldest knows about PANTS and I've done a 10 week safeguarding course through a family worker. Spoke to lff and everything the sw said we can't actually do anymore than what we have she's just not giving us any information at all
Yeah so get that all down in a format that is plain and simple hun! Well done for doing this work.
Have a look at the books the NSPCC reccomends for body boundaries think they are great and age appropriate not just about sexual abuse but also good and bad touch these are things they will learn at school too plus helpful for my boy who likes to kick just adds to you taking it seriously I think x
How do you feel about having to supervise forever?
Have a look at the books the NSPCC reccomends for body boundaries think they are great and age appropriate not just about sexual abuse but also good and bad touch these are things they will learn at school too plus helpful for my boy who likes to kick just adds to you taking it seriously I think x
How do you feel about having to supervise forever?
Thankyou I'll take a look at that too I new someone on here would have some idea. I think they do it to see if your bothering or not.
I'm wondering if it will be unsupervised because she said something about if the school and pick ups and I stated that I would be doing all that as he won't be going on at school grounds to protect ourselves and others.
I don't really want to be doing it forever their babies I haven't had any life for this long already they don't see that we need a break too
I'm wondering if it will be unsupervised because she said something about if the school and pick ups and I stated that I would be doing all that as he won't be going on at school grounds to protect ourselves and others.
I don't really want to be doing it forever their babies I haven't had any life for this long already they don't see that we need a break too