Why won’t this pain just go
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It's early days for me but I know exactly how you feel, was at the GP earlier and saying 6 months waiting list for therapy, my family want nothing to do with him either I mean I got to respect their decision but it does make you feel worse inside, I literally broke down again at the Gp everytime I verabally talk about it I end up crying and am a complete mess. my ex was a massive support to me as we have a disabled daughter that's a part-time wheelchair user so she's feeling it too and been told can be up to 10 weeks until supervised access is sorted, I'm isolated as know one comes here and I can't tell anyone for the fear of their reaction then loosing more people and the fear of what's to come if it goes in the media. I haven't chosen weather to get back together as it's too early for me to consider everything. Weather he can be rehabilitated, what made him do it ? Is he attracted to children ? Can the relationship be fixed ? So many questions. Just know your not alone xx
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I get the resentment. The other evening, I was thinking how lucky my husband is to not have any of the responsibilities of looking after the kids, dog, house etc and juggling work. He doesn't have to do any of the activity drop offs and sports. I know he would rather be here with us but it does sometimes feel like he has the easier life now. He hasn't had to face any of our friends, family or neighbours (who've fortunately all been great).
I'm so sorry about your neighbours Dragon, that must be so hard to live in such a hostile environment.
I'm so sorry about your neighbours Dragon, that must be so hard to live in such a hostile environment.
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So sorry Dragonmama I can't imagine how you must be feeling (not that far into this nightmare journey).
Your poor daughter it is incomprehensible that anyone could take their ignorance out on her.
if it were me I would put a nice letter through their door explaining that their actions are making your (innocent) lives a misery. And to please have a little compassion.
if that fails ... then report them to the Police ... it is intimidating and unacceptable behaviour.
Sending a massive virtual hug x
Your poor daughter it is incomprehensible that anyone could take their ignorance out on her.
if it were me I would put a nice letter through their door explaining that their actions are making your (innocent) lives a misery. And to please have a little compassion.
if that fails ... then report them to the Police ... it is intimidating and unacceptable behaviour.
Sending a massive virtual hug x