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"She sat at the back

and they said she was shy,

she led from the front

and they hated her pride.



They asked her advice

and then questioned

her guidance.

They branded her loud

then were shocked by her

silence.



When she shared no ambition

they said it was sad

so she told them her dreams

and they said she was mad.



They told her they'd listen

then covered their ears

and gave her a hug

whilst they laughed at her

fears.



And she listened to all of it

thinking she should

be the girl they told her to be

best as she could.



But one day she asked

what was best for herself

instead of trying to please

everyone else.



So she walked to the forest

and stood with the trees,

she heard the wind whisper

and dance with the leaves.



And she spoke to the willow,

the elm and the pine

and she told them what

she'd been told,

time after time.



She told them she never

felt nearly enough

she was either too little,

or far, far too much.



Too loud or too quiet,

too fierce or too weak,

too wise or too foolish,

too bold, or too meek.



Then she found a small clearing

surrounded by firs

and she stopped and she heard

what the trees said to her.



And she sat there for hours

not wanting to leave -

for the forest said nothing,

it just let her breathe."



???? Becky Hemsley, Breathe

???? The Mud Maid sculpture,

representing a sleeping

woman, located in The Lost

Gardens of Heligan, in

Cornwall, in the Southwest of

England. The artists are

brother and sister Sue and

Pete Hill.
I thought this may help to calm all of our souls. Love, light and healing to all on this journey xxx

Definitely, I have two absolute warrior princesses. The oldest, now a woman, doesn't allow anyone to define her and the little one is a force to be reckoned with already lol.
My boy is tremendous too tbf. Men also need to be reminded that they are enough, especially in a society that expects so much from our young people xxx