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Sarahe

Member since
November 2022

9 posts

Posted Fri February 3, 2023 1:26pmReport post

I just feel we are getting nowhere...knock early November , oh admitted viewing and downloading pictures all categories, I asked him to leave as have children and grandchildren living with us ...he lost his job ( he worked with kids), he's been suicidal, moved from family to friends who all one by one can't cope with him , my older children are now finding it difficult to keep up a relationship with him ...he's now talking to my daughter who has her own mental health difficulties , telling her he can't cope without us, worrying her that he will end his life ...I'm at a loss , no idea what to do ...he's been attending porn addiction meetings etc ....we we're married a long time , but the trust has gone I'm sorry but I dint want him back but I don't want him to harm himself or upset my daughter with endless calls to her ....sorry for rant but I don't want to burden any of my family

K4

Member since
October 2022

608 posts

Posted Fri February 3, 2023 1:29pmReport post

don't apologise for ranting - this is most people's only safe space....



has your person sought out further support from stopso? Or LFF? Maybe give those details to your daughter so next time he burdens her she can direct him elsewhere??



so sorry you're all under so much strain xx

Sarahe

Member since
November 2022

9 posts

Posted Fri February 3, 2023 10:47pmReport post

Thank you , but yes he has all the numbers and has spoken to lff, and so has my daughter now , and it really helped xxx