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Losing my son

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Sad50

Member since
February 2023

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Posted Sat February 4, 2023 1:43pmReport post

Hi All



Can I ask am i such a horrid person that I can no longer have a relationship with my son cus he supports his partner. My family won't support him but expect me to as his mum an I can't.so i Have now losed my son.This is killing me but this is something that I could never forgive.I know others may forgive and that's there right to but I can't .

Edited by moderator Mon February 6, 2023 9:41am

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

288 posts

Posted Sun May 26, 2024 1:51pmReport post

Hi, each journey is unique and maybe in time you might feel different. This is one part of a person, not the whole being. It's hard. I can definitely see partners walking away but I think with a child, I guess it's even harder. X

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2403 posts

Posted Sun May 26, 2024 2:01pmReport post

Sad

I can only imagine how difficult this is , there is no right or wrong in wanting to support or not it is only a decision that you can decide on, x

It dosent make you a horrid person, you have to do what is right for you x

Edited Sun May 26, 2024 2:02pm

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2556 posts

Posted Sun May 26, 2024 4:07pmReport post

Sad / don't ever think you are a 'horrid' person, you certainly are not that. This journey is far from easy, it's not 'black & white' it holds many 'grey' areas, people see situations from different angles, non of them wrong, non of them horrid.

I will never forgive the hurt my son has caused to our once happy family, he ripped it apart causing devastation. It'll sadly never go back to how it was.....

But in (my opinion) this evil crime is NOT his definition as a person. It's been a lonely journey sticking by my decisions but I stand strong by them and continue to be in my sons life.

Make decisions that are right by you. Sleep comfortable at night by them and don't beat yourself up xxxx

hug sent x