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Overthinking ex

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February 2023

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Posted Mon February 13, 2023 9:38pmReport post

Has anyone ever had a 'gut feeling' before the knock on the door?



I'm a worried ex wife.



My children spend equal time between mine and my ex's house. At the moment I can't shake off a gut feeling that there will soon be a knock at his door.



He has a porn addiction, suffers with his mental health and has attempted numerous times to get in to my adult friends pants (this was both when we were together and now).

Now I'd been made aware of him messaging a friend's daughter who is 13. I knew at the present moment there was nothing sexual in the conversation, however some of the content I find worrying as I, as an adult wouldn't ask my friends children some of what he is asking them. On asking him if he had messaged the said teenager. He swore it wasn't him. The teenager has now blocked him.

I've read some of the previous threads and there appears to be a few that show their person has a history of watching porn and also goes looking for harder porn to satisfy there needs

I'm at my wit's end as I don't have evidence to go to the police myself but I really don't know what to do next so to speak.



Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


Edited by moderator Tue February 14, 2023 10:38am