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Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Tue May 21, 2019 7:28amReport post

Hi, last night the offender management team phoned me, and explained some of his restrictions now it's gone to court, also they said SS will be calling again. I feel like im im back at square one again, all those fears and not knowing what's going to happen next! He also seemed a bit surprised I haven't changed my daughters name, I told him my ex wouldn't let me, has anyone else changed their childrens name? My ex is now saying he will let me, a bit bloody late!! He also told me to not trust him as paedophile are liers, that's ok because I don't trust him, I know he's a lier.

So so scared all over again, couldn't sleep last night, this is worse than the 19 month not knowing anything!

Jayne G

Member since
March 2019

125 posts

Posted Tue May 21, 2019 8:27amReport post

Morning Cher, I'm so sorry you feel back to square one. This whole process is ever changing and it's terrifying. The lack of sleep is the worst and it certainly doesn't help your mood, so try to breathe and take any chance for some sleep that you can get.

I know SS will be coming back out, but it sounds like you're doing everything to keep your daughter safe, so you shouldn't have anything to worry about there. (Easier said than done, I know).

You'll get through this. You've got this far and you'll keep going.

Tracey

Member since
December 2018

450 posts

Posted Tue May 21, 2019 1:23pmReport post

Hi Cher

That's rubbish, it only takes one thing and you are back to the feelings you had at the beginning. I wish I knew how long that lasts for but I don't, all I can do is try and help you through this forum.

Wouldn't it be lovely to all get together on a summers day for a cup of tea, chat and comfort.

Stay strong, you're doing great and what a role model for your daughter xx

Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Tue May 21, 2019 1:30pmReport post

Thanks for the support, it really means a lot to me.

It would be good for us all to meet up, it would be emotional.

Xxx