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we had the knock yesterday and my husband was arrested and released on bail. I don't yet know where he is as he had to come and take his bag whilst our 12 year old was out of the house. With bail conditions he is allowed no contact with our son until social services assess. On the advicw of the helpline I have told him daddy clicked on an image he shouldnt have done and they need to investigate before he can see him. He is so confused and asking when he will be home. I know it will be never. Even if the offences are minor for me I can never allow him in the house again. Do I be honest with him now that daddy won't be living with us. Or wait and ease him into the situation? I am hoping social services allow supervised visits at least so he can see him. I genuinely don't think he has touched my son but instead being indulging in fantasies online. I didn't sleep last night also worrying about losing our home because of money worries. My anxiety is off the scale and I don't know how I will get through this. But know I have to be strong for my son. i am worries this is going to break him