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Hi hope your all well , I have been quiet the past few weeks because things just seen to get worse for me .
Weeks and weeks after being put on a child protection plan (still haven't received the plan)
My social worker came and gave me a new safety plan which included sending no pictures of my children to there father . Not eveen fully clothed. Is this on anyone who eles plan . They come up with a new problem and restriction every week . And today I was shocked and believe this is unessasry as we have been sending pictures for 1.5 years now . Xx
Weeks and weeks after being put on a child protection plan (still haven't received the plan)
My social worker came and gave me a new safety plan which included sending no pictures of my children to there father . Not eveen fully clothed. Is this on anyone who eles plan . They come up with a new problem and restriction every week . And today I was shocked and believe this is unessasry as we have been sending pictures for 1.5 years now . Xx
Is he still allowed to see his kids supervised? xx
Yea . There just trying to limit it and get times and dates which isn't a problem but I normally send a picture every now and then then because he sees them limited and things change so quickly with little one crawling and things xx
Hi xxx,
Did they say why they deem this necessary? In my first report from ss when they closed the case whilst I was pregnant it specifically stated no restrictions on pictures, so it is definitely something that they consider when working with families in this situation. Did you agree to the safety plan they presented today? I know you've had a rough time of things with ss but you are allowed to push back on things and ask for their reasoning behind their decisions. Explain that your oh will miss many milestones especially with your little one due to them restricting contact xxx
Did they say why they deem this necessary? In my first report from ss when they closed the case whilst I was pregnant it specifically stated no restrictions on pictures, so it is definitely something that they consider when working with families in this situation. Did you agree to the safety plan they presented today? I know you've had a rough time of things with ss but you are allowed to push back on things and ask for their reasoning behind their decisions. Explain that your oh will miss many milestones especially with your little one due to them restricting contact xxx
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Hi xxx,
I completely understand how u feel, I felt the same when I was cpp, they kept saying we need to do stuff but nothing gets done, I sent myself mental, hence y I had no fight fir him coming home full time x
Maybe ask her how u can be when u r already doing everything u can, if that makes sense x DON'T BE BULLIED BY THEM XX
I completely understand how u feel, I felt the same when I was cpp, they kept saying we need to do stuff but nothing gets done, I sent myself mental, hence y I had no fight fir him coming home full time x
Maybe ask her how u can be when u r already doing everything u can, if that makes sense x DON'T BE BULLIED BY THEM XX
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Thank you yea he's not eveen coming home that's the things but still there just making things hard xxx
Childrens services opened and closed the case after initial arrest june 2019 and left me superving all contact no personal care to be completed by him and no pictures to be taken by him but I was told I could send appropriate ones and I was to over see this.
Hi
my husband was told to leave him after the knock. He was in possession of some cat c images which he says he didn't knowingly download.
The first Sw was awful and told me my son would be in 'The system' till he was 18 (he was only 11)
however long term social worker has been amazing. Has carried out a risk assessment and husband is now home. Maybe as they to carry out a risk assessment on ur partner? As it's in best interest to ur kids
good luck
my husband was told to leave him after the knock. He was in possession of some cat c images which he says he didn't knowingly download.
The first Sw was awful and told me my son would be in 'The system' till he was 18 (he was only 11)
however long term social worker has been amazing. Has carried out a risk assessment and husband is now home. Maybe as they to carry out a risk assessment on ur partner? As it's in best interest to ur kids
good luck