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Lola53

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Posted Thu March 16, 2023 8:13amReport post

So my son (aged 23) was given a three year community order, 5 years SOR and was not given an SHPO (offence was a small amount of images across all categories). His VISOR, generally very pleasant and friendly, said she was disappointed that he hadn't got an SHPO, she'd like to have seen one in place but 'as long as he lets me check his phone it won't be a problem'! I queried whether he was legally obliged to do so without an SHPO and she said no; in their subsequent meeting he politely explained that, whilst he had nothing to hide, he would like to get advice my his solicitor before he agreed to showing his phone. VISOR was absolutely fine about this.

A few days later he had his initial probation meeting; the probation officer had clearly had feedback from the VISOR and wasn't happy about this situation and the fact that he doesn't have an SHPO - she even indicated that she was going to see if one could be put in place. Seems ridiculous given that a Crown Court judge sentenced him! She also then kicked off because he's applied for a part-time shop job (he's doing a degree) and she doesn't think he should be in a shop because there might be under 16s. He's disclosed his offence to the employer and been offered the job and, in my view, it's up to them. His is a non-contact offence and, more to the point, I thought probation were about rehabilitation and moving forward.

We have a meeting with our solictor tomorrow but I needed to have a rant!!

Maij

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Lola53

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Posted Thu March 16, 2023 10:26amReport post

Hi Maij

Thank you for your reply and I hope you and your son are OK x

I agree with you - we welcome the phone checks too, partly as a safeguard and partly because it signifies that he's complying. I think it's more the attitude that frustrated me, when he's doing everything in his power to move on.

However, given the nature of the offence, he's been very very lucky with the way he's been treated - from original arrest right the way through. The probation officer is the first person who has made him feel bad. Even the prosecution solicitor in Crown Court told a reporter that it wasn't worth hanging around as it was 'just a few images'!

I'll let you know what our solicitor says.

All the best xx

Daffodil

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Lola53

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Posted Thu March 16, 2023 10:58amReport post

Thanks Daffodil, that was my understanding too. Meeting with solicitor tomorrow so we'll get some more clarity.

Hope you're doing OK x

Blackhound

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Posted Thu March 16, 2023 9:37pmReport post

Heya Lola,

My person didn't get slapped with an SHPO either. They did bring it up as well, when the visors came over the same happened with him. They asked to see his phone and he gave it up with no worries here.

I too did know it was an invasion of privacy that they're not entitled to but because he handed it over they didn't question it or take it any further.

Srry this happened to your son. I'm glad it's all been put to bed now, the waiting atleast...

The probation team have been absolutely fine to work with for him. It's the unapid community service that's worrying him now but one step at a time.

Im not on here anymore really because I'm moving on but I got worried about something recently so decided to come back just for tonight.

Hope everything is okay.

Lola53

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Posted Fri March 17, 2023 8:29amReport post

Thanks Blackhound. Glad you're moving on, hope you're doing OK x

Summer

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Posted Fri March 17, 2023 10:39amReport post

There's another post about not knowing their *** from their elbow and is fitting!



My person was told under no circumstance could he do a certain job by visor then probation officer pushing to do training for said job. They had a joint meeting and visor said no I never said that??



my person was hoping he could make something positive out of this but it's not looking that way missed appointments by then constant lies/dishonesty and general just wasting his time. On the surface treating him with respect but really its not people have lives too!

Lola53

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Posted Sun March 19, 2023 7:30amReport post

Sorry you're going through that Summer :-( Hope you're doing OK x

Seaside

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Posted Sun March 19, 2023 9:44amReport post

I am raging at the sheer ineptitude of the people who are meant to be working together to help my son.

They most certainly don't know their arse from their elbow.

As some of you may know my son was forced by the visor to either disclose or resign from his job with no time given to even meet with his HR manager and explain because the visor was insisting that he would go to the place of employment and disclose anyway.

When my son questioned the visor as to why this was necessary he was threatened by him saying that he could make things worse for himself if he asked questions.

He has an SHPO which had the section regarding contact with under 18's removed with the agreement of the judge but the visor is trying to enforce this -he stated that had the case been heard in our current location then it would definitely have been left in -well my reaction to that was that it wasn't heard here and he can't just overrrule the court but he is an absolute thug who seems to think he can act as he wants.

My son has completed his community payback and is now looking for employment but nobody seems willing or able to advise him as to what types of jobs he can do and his probation officer didn't even know what sentence he had been given!!

The whole system just seems to be a complete mess and the view appears to be that he is not worth bothering about

Lola53

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Posted Sun March 19, 2023 5:04pmReport post

Seaside, I've had a meeting with our solicitor since my post and, in a nutshell the 'rule of law' applies which means that your son has been tried and sentenced as the judge deems appropriate. If the visor wants to challenge this, there is a legal process which they must go through to do so, and they must have good reason e.g. they consider that your son poses a risk which isn't being covered by the SHPO. This risk applies regarding employers, for example if your son applies for a job in a school the visor would have legitimate right to disclose to the school. For other forms of employment, they may disclose if they think there is risk but, in the case of my son, he's going to work in a shop so there's no more risk than him walking round a shop!

The other thing we were told is, if a potential employer asks if you have a criminal conviction, you can say yes and that you'll be happy to discuss it. Hope that helps a little in backing up your case and good luck to your son in finding a job x

Seaside

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Posted Mon March 20, 2023 2:41pmReport post

Thanks Lola that's very helpful indeed.

SoTired

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SoTired

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Summer

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Posted Mon March 20, 2023 8:06pmReport post

So out of interest has anyone Apart from your partner told you about thier offence?? In the name of safeguarding Ofcourse!

Summer

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Posted Mon March 20, 2023 8:12pmReport post

my person although not helpful decides to remind them well there's nothing stopping him hanging out in the toy superstore all day! When they try and be awkward with him about employment or the 'threats' of unannounced visits.



yes people should be punished for thier crimes but.... this whole thing is a sh*t show start to end and continuing! No wonder people continue thier illegal ways (not our offences) as they find it a joke

Lola53

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Posted Tue March 21, 2023 8:39amReport post

Summer, I can see why your person would be driven to say that!

Seaside

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 2:10pmReport post

My son has an interview tomorrow for a job working at a car rental company.

He wasn't asked to disclose on the application form and the company doesn't employ anyone under 18 or hire to under 21 so from what I can see there shouldn't be any issues regarding him working there if he's offered the job.

If he's offered the job then he will inform the visor manager but I really don't think there are any reasons for him to question this employment ( other than the fact that he is a complete idiot)

Keeping everything crossed it would be so fantastic if he got this as he's been so low after being forced out of his previous job.

Summer

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 3:28pmReport post

Seaside I've been thinking about this where does it state our people need to inform the visor about what jobs they have? Or tell them about family gatherings etc if there is not a no under 18s contact clause in the SHPO?

Yes if they ask when they visit but where is it they have to say is it ok sir to do this job?

sorry if that doesn't make sense just not sure if visor making out they have more say than what they actually do??

Seaside

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July 2022

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 3:35pmReport post

Hi Summer,

This what I really don't understand either and we're not getting any answers on.

The SHPO is only for no contact with under 16 ( even though the visor is trying to make it under 18) but according to the visor he will risk assess every job and decide if he needs to inform the employer.

We contacted our Solicitor who says that this is unacceptable and we should challenge him

Upset mum

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 4:37pmReport post

Hi Seaside x

How are you and your son doing?

I will have everything x for him as I know he must be feeling not great after the job interview at M&S xx

Seaside

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 5:08pmReport post

Thanks Upset we haven't been doing great to be honest as he has been really low after not getting the job at M&S.

He isn't getting much in the way of help or support from Probation regarding jobs to apply for and I have been concerned about his mental health-he just needs to have a job that will make him feel that he's worth something and that he isn't written off by society.

How are you and your son doing?

Upset mum

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 5:21pmReport post

Hi Seaside x

Oh it must be so difficult for him as he was been totally upfront and honest also difficult for you to see him decline in his state of mind xx

He just needs a chance and I hope he gets it

I wish I could offer some help or advice

Were doing ok, my son is ok , he got 96% on his first module for his degree that he is doing inside, he looks so much better in himself on our last visit, we have a long journey ahead but if he is ok then so am I xx

Seaside

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Posted Thu March 23, 2023 6:59pmReport post

Aaahh Upset my dear friend you always have so much empathy and understanding and I am so grateful for your support.

If my son gets the job it really will make all the difference to us all.

Thats great news about your son please congratulate him from me on that brilliant achievement.

SoTired

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Seaside

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 9:31amReport post

So tired I have looked everywhere as well and like you I can't find anything so agree that it probably is down to the individual police policy of the area.

I think you asked if we were possibly in the same area?- We have relocated from our previous home in the West to the NW now .

SoTired

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Seaside

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 10:05amReport post

So tired that's really interesting we are probably not far from each other at all and I wish we could meet up in person.

SoTired

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Upset mum

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 2:56pmReport post

Hi Seaside x

I will and thank you x

How did the interview go for your son?xx

Lola53

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 3:50pmReport post

I'm sorry you and your son are having a tough time Seaside. Apparently Timpsons, the key folk, have a policy of employing and supporting ex-offenders, so that could be worth investigating. Your visor sounds a nightmare but he really can't overturn the court's ruling; for what it's worth, our solicitor said that probation officers and visors often play hardball to start with but once they realise that our son is doing the right thing and playing by the rules, they're highly likely to back off. Hopefully this will be true for both our sons. My son's probation officer was even questioning his choice of university the other day! Not even remotely relevant!

Seaside

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 4:35pmReport post

He seems to think that the interview went well and he should hear on Monday if he's been successful.

Theres an interesting case study on the unlock website that features someone who applied to Timpsons and was rejected for being on the SOR so it would appear that they are selective as to what offences they are willing to overlook.

Lola it just horrifies me that the people who are meant to be in charge of him are so clueless about what he can do but are very quick to impose their own opinions

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Upset mum

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 5:33pmReport post

Seaside x

Everything x that he gets good news xx

Lola53

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 5:56pmReport post

Seaside, that's depressing about Timpsons :-( Glad to hear the interview went well - keep us posted.

We've had a development here - my son did his community service induction today and is going to be required to do a full day each Saturday. He had a one-to-one and explained that he's just finishing his degree and has just started a part-time job which will now be impossible to do because of the Saturdays. I know that he can't possibly object under the circumstances, but it's so frustrating when someone WANTS to work and is making every effort to do so and to rebuild their life.

Seaside

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 5:59pmReport post

Lola the community service is supposed to be arranged to accommodate employment so definitely take this up with probation.

Upset mum

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Posted Fri March 24, 2023 6:07pmReport post

Lola53

Totally agree with Seaside they should be able to do the CS around there job xx