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Devestatedmum

Member since
October 2022

40 posts

Posted Thu March 16, 2023 11:57amReport post

The first knock was a year ago to the day.this was for distribution first thing I asked was is it my kids they told me no. Then I had to supervise contact for 6 months no support from social services. Then the second knock came he had already moved out. They told me the worst I could imagine. We have had zero contact since about 6 months as he had images of my older children I have one child with him biologically and nothing was found of her. She's 12 and keeps asking for contact. It's a flat out no from social until after court. My child has asd has no support at all not even able to attend school due to her mental health and just no one's doing anything to help her! Police and social promised referrals to services and we've had nothing. They've told me to expect another bail as they're still investigating whatever that means it's all so vague and uncertain because it's classed as victimless we have no victim support either. I don't know why I'm posting I'm just so lost.

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Thu March 16, 2023 10:33pmReport post

Hi DevastatedMum,

I'm so sorry you and your daughter are struggling. I'm not best placed with advice on this area but I believe there is a charity called Children Heard & Seen (Google top result) who may be able to help get your daughter some support, I'm not entirely sure what they can do (if anything) but hopefully somebody may have something else to add to help. You're not alone. Sending love xx