Feel like I can't breathe
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I don't post much but I read all the posts daily I suppose I am looking for answers that nobody really has, how long will it take, what will sentence be, do I stay with him or go, am I a bad mum for staying!!!! The weight on my chest the now seems to be so heavy, my mind can't switch off at all from it all I feel like I need to see a professional but I keep cancelling doctors appts I have tried to call helpline but can't seem to get my words out.
Knock Nov 2022 charge next day, 5 image2 cat a and 3 cat b no distribution a click on a porn room on kik, because he has crap cleaner on his phone they say it wasn't a simple click and he was trying to destroy evidence, we await our own report to be done on phone which should show how long pics were on and that he has always had crap cleaner, mental health wise he was remanded weekend for his own safety but released on the Monday at court, bail was he can't see children under 18 without there parents there but ok to be alone with our daughter, he has 2 therapists and school have organised a therapist at my request for my daughter, ss visited once spoke to all 3 of us and haven't heard a thing since, we have had court adjourned February and March due to cps not releasing phone to our expert we have court again next week and still no report, this is of no fault of our own solicitor contacts us weekly by email informing us no report as yet.
Does anyone else feel they cant talk to professionals
Knock Nov 2022 charge next day, 5 image2 cat a and 3 cat b no distribution a click on a porn room on kik, because he has crap cleaner on his phone they say it wasn't a simple click and he was trying to destroy evidence, we await our own report to be done on phone which should show how long pics were on and that he has always had crap cleaner, mental health wise he was remanded weekend for his own safety but released on the Monday at court, bail was he can't see children under 18 without there parents there but ok to be alone with our daughter, he has 2 therapists and school have organised a therapist at my request for my daughter, ss visited once spoke to all 3 of us and haven't heard a thing since, we have had court adjourned February and March due to cps not releasing phone to our expert we have court again next week and still no report, this is of no fault of our own solicitor contacts us weekly by email informing us no report as yet.
Does anyone else feel they cant talk to professionals
Hi
All of those feelings are normal and valid. I have chosen to stand by my husband, he is still not home spost sentencing while we wait for a specialist risk assessment.
I have found it very difficult to talk to anyone, specially professionals. Knowing that most will not understand the intricacies of this type of offending and how easy it is for a person to find themselves in this position, makes me worry that I will be judged, even by professionals.
We are almost a year in and what I can say is, the bad days come less frequently, sleep becomes easier and this can make your relationship stronger.
I hope my words bring you some comfort x
All of those feelings are normal and valid. I have chosen to stand by my husband, he is still not home spost sentencing while we wait for a specialist risk assessment.
I have found it very difficult to talk to anyone, specially professionals. Knowing that most will not understand the intricacies of this type of offending and how easy it is for a person to find themselves in this position, makes me worry that I will be judged, even by professionals.
We are almost a year in and what I can say is, the bad days come less frequently, sleep becomes easier and this can make your relationship stronger.
I hope my words bring you some comfort x
Thank you so much for the response, lack of sleep Is getting to me for sure I work 12 hour shifts also I think I am on auto pilot been doing a lot of overtime as I refuse to touch our savings for legal fees for all of this.
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