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Hi there,
I'm looking for a new friend who is in a similar position situation to mine.
I got my husband back home and got all of his parental rights reinstated. Nearly killed me getting to this point.
We tried to make it work but he sat around and didn't work. I separated from him as felt something wasn't right. Turns out that once SS signed us off he let probation back track a lot of his contact rights in public bc of his SHPO. #swearword.
I'm livid with him let them undo all that work. I'm thinking divorce. He's going to fight it with probation. The SHPO is illegal in my view, against the rights of his children having a normal family life. They are treating him like the child catcher even though his risk assessment is same as joe Bloggs.
I've friends in this journey but they are at different stages now and can't offer me the support I need. I just need a mate to chat with on what's app or whatever to help keep me sane. Maybe it's too much to ask but hoped someone out there was in between a relationship with their partner.
Would like to hear from you.
cheers.
I'm looking for a new friend who is in a similar position situation to mine.
I got my husband back home and got all of his parental rights reinstated. Nearly killed me getting to this point.
We tried to make it work but he sat around and didn't work. I separated from him as felt something wasn't right. Turns out that once SS signed us off he let probation back track a lot of his contact rights in public bc of his SHPO. #swearword.
I'm livid with him let them undo all that work. I'm thinking divorce. He's going to fight it with probation. The SHPO is illegal in my view, against the rights of his children having a normal family life. They are treating him like the child catcher even though his risk assessment is same as joe Bloggs.
I've friends in this journey but they are at different stages now and can't offer me the support I need. I just need a mate to chat with on what's app or whatever to help keep me sane. Maybe it's too much to ask but hoped someone out there was in between a relationship with their partner.
Would like to hear from you.
cheers.
Hiya When you say he had his PR reinstated why did he have this taken away.
unfortunately after being convicted of this time of crime his risk will never just be like Joe Bloggs in Regards to the SHPO are you saying they have made changes to this if so I think they have to go back to court to get these changed.
I think perhaps it would be easier for you to look at him in 2 ways him as a dad and what you expect from him and him as your partner he can be a dad without being your partner and children are resilient so don't worry about making the best choice for you. You are the only one who has to be happy with it!
unfortunately after being convicted of this time of crime his risk will never just be like Joe Bloggs in Regards to the SHPO are you saying they have made changes to this if so I think they have to go back to court to get these changed.
I think perhaps it would be easier for you to look at him in 2 ways him as a dad and what you expect from him and him as your partner he can be a dad without being your partner and children are resilient so don't worry about making the best choice for you. You are the only one who has to be happy with it!
Message me on Friday when pm is up and running I'll give you my number we can watsap xx