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Whisper

Member since
March 2023

28 posts

Posted Thu April 13, 2023 10:49pmReport post

So ???? and the fact that I was informed via sw on only input said via police in charge of my ex's case so it's seems like they think that he may be a possible member or knows of a possible pedifile ring.... as that's why he poses a threat in his children in protection rating meaning that he will never have any one 2 one alone time with my kids especially my daughter.....

But it's just basically messed up to if this comes into a trail as truth then I was seriously foolish with it all and I have nothing but regret to him but my children are not going to be as anymore then what are my life clearly his agenda may have been different but I'll never know a double life they called it..... but it's only what police saying nothing backing it as not seen any paperwork for they say nothing but bs it is not fair I need answers..... my kids are my responsibility to keep going strong for how long I will be in the mess that was his doing but feel like I'm bien punished more than him..... please can anyone help me out......

Daffodil

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Posted Fri April 14, 2023 12:13amReport post

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SoTired

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March 2021

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Posted Fri April 14, 2023 9:28pmReport post

Whisper, just wanted to send you lots of care. So incredibly hard for you x

Whisper

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March 2023

28 posts

Posted Sat April 15, 2023 11:03amReport post

In response from myself I don't think I can stop myself wanting the kids to see him when/if depending all on how police are looking into the whole thing is just still unbelievable what was now a double life he may have been doing I want it to end for the kids I just struggling with the why I have guilt for he did it but I had children and they are my priority now as always are so it's thier dession unfortunately we have a just turned 1yo only seeing him briefly so he will struggle with accept when vist happens I'll have supervision as long as nessary but it seems like they need decide what they do if goes ahead police are to me as bad coz they need to do more to keeping these sites obviously accessible to be shutdown why anyone can't see Internet is much more likely a problem but is a better outcome if for them victims to get justice done.

If he has any decency he will pled guilt and do time shows his kids that much..... sorry still v.much raw but I want to see a light and end as we all do here but we should be given more support than whatever we get given.....

I have a nr 17yo and a 11yo too so yes it's just so much that they decide I'll fully support them

Edited Sat April 15, 2023 11:05am