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scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:23pmReport post

So my oh is officially back home after what seems like a long but also very short 22months. We have finished our phased return. His completed all of his unpaid work which he only started beginning of year and finished last month and hopefully social services will be closing our case soon. Now on to a new start from today and not having my oldest tell me he doesn't like his daddy working nights and hopefully start being a proper family again.

Anybody going through all this being either at the very start or towards the end please don't give up with what you want keep going and sooner or later you can get to where you want to be

Edited Fri April 14, 2023 6:23pm

Cherry

Member since
January 2023

106 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:39pmReport post

I'm So happy for you these stories are just what I needed to hear I've been threatened with being put on cpp if I get back with my ex and the thought has terrified me as she hasn't explained what that means or why I'd go straight on one other then they won't know his risk, I'm trying to not let them scare me but it's bloody hard when I've got no confidence in myself to start with. I wish you all the best for the future. X

K4

Member since
October 2022

609 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:39pmReport post

Congratulations!! How lovely for you and your family!!





I am 6 months in and nowhere near phased return.

Please May I ask whether OH is allowed to be unsupervised with your kids? Also, what are the rules for their friends?




x

Clarkestaff

Member since
September 2022

119 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:46pmReport post

Ah congratulations, we had similar positive news also today, my OH can return home after 10months and sleep with my supervision. Xx

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:46pmReport post

Cherry we've been on cin plan the whole time but I have stayed with him and he has been in contact with the children every day I stuck to my guns and said from the start I wanted this to end in him returning home. I have had to do a lot of work to prove I can safe guard my children have you done any courses or anything x

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:48pmReport post

K4 at the moment it's supervised but I am going to try and push for unsupervised before they close the case I have already mentioned it on a previous meeting with ss manager so they are aware. As for friends coming round we have it in our safety plan that and party's or visits my oh would stay away from the house

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 6:50pmReport post

Clarke staff that's lovely news I'm so happy for you x

K4

Member since
October 2022

609 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 7:52pmReport post

Thank you for letting me know. That's good news about friends coming over, fingers crossed for unsupervised for you xxx



And well done clarkestaff too xx

Life feels over

Member since
September 2022

412 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 8:54pmReport post

The forum is on a good news roll today x

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Scared and confused

Member since
February 2023

9 posts

Posted Fri April 14, 2023 9:25pmReport post

That's great news. It gives me hope to hear the positive stories and to know that eventually he could come back if I want him to.



congrats on the start of a new chapter

Dragonmama

Member since
November 2022

251 posts

Posted Sat April 15, 2023 1:08amReport post

@scaredandconfused

i am over the moon for your family, here's to a bright and beautiful future xx

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

994 posts

Posted Sat April 15, 2023 7:31amReport post

Fantastic news xxx

Summer

Member since
July 2019

394 posts

Posted Sat April 15, 2023 8:44amReport post

That's Brilliant news well done! X