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Bitterbean

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December 2021

634 posts

Posted Sun April 16, 2023 3:31pmReport post

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BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Sun April 16, 2023 6:34pmReport post

Bitterbean,

It's so incredibly hard to know what to believe. My sister knew what had gone on (because the stupid police forced me to tell her) and didn't believe he had done it but I know if my Mum knew she wouldn't have been the same because she is very pessimistic. Until I had the evidence I wasn't 100% whether 1000's of images would also be uncovered because let's be serious, how do we ever really know what goes on inside someone else's head? How can we know 100% if they're telling the truth? We can't as sad as that is. We have to lead with what we know and how we feel. If it turns out to be the wrong decision then it's not shame on our part, it's shame on them. Sending love xx

Summer

Member since
July 2019

394 posts

Posted Sun April 16, 2023 9:17pmReport post

Bitterbean what you have written is how I feel, can't walk away throw him under a bus. He's not a bad man but... I'm only here once! It's all such a mess, but please don't ever blame yourself! Just no, we didn't cause this!