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Oh Parker I am so sorry. You can take it one step at a time, one day at a time. Get yourself a coffee or something, take some deep breaths, have a cry, let it out. You will get through this, the limbo is over. Sending love xxx
Not today but maybe in the next few days you could look to appeal the sentence. May be worth a try. Have a chat to the solicitor when you feel up to it xx
Not today but maybe in the next few days you could look to appeal the sentence. May be worth a try. Have a chat to the solicitor when you feel up to it xx
I won't offer sympathy but can offer empathy. The shock is like nothing I've ever experienced before and it can seem almost hard to breathe in the early days. We are here when you need us. It does get easier although it won't seem so in this moment. I'm so sorry x
Deep breaths and hugs to you
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So sorry for the awful news, sending you so much love, definitely try do something kind for yourself today and if you can talk to someone that can support you someone you can lean on and have a good cry. we are all here for you xx
I'm so sorry Parker. As has been said already be kind to yourself over the coming days and check with solicitors about grounds for appeal. It really is ridiculous that so much sits with the judge on the day rather than what has been recommended by probation etc. Sending love and strength xxx
Parkerpoo1
I am so sorry, x
I hope you have managed to get yourself back home, do you have any support around you that someone can be with you this evening?
Obviously this is a huge shock so please do try to take care of yourself x
It will take a couple of days before he will be able to call you but he will be looked after once numbers are approved he will be able to call,
Take a deep breath I know how daunting to you
Sending hugs xx
I am so sorry, x
I hope you have managed to get yourself back home, do you have any support around you that someone can be with you this evening?
Obviously this is a huge shock so please do try to take care of yourself x
It will take a couple of days before he will be able to call you but he will be looked after once numbers are approved he will be able to call,
Take a deep breath I know how daunting to you
Sending hugs xx
I'm so sorry. That must be a big shock for you. I hope you managed the drive home okay. Allow yourself to cry and shout, whatever helps. It's very emotional whatever the outcome. I sobbed so much it hurt and we were one of the lucky ones.
@parkerpoo1
i am so sorry that you have to go through all of this and got this outcome.
have a cuppa and cry I'm sat with you in sprit holding your hand xx
i am so sorry that you have to go through all of this and got this outcome.
have a cuppa and cry I'm sat with you in sprit holding your hand xx
Oh Parkerpoo I am so sorry too. My heart breaks for you. Hope you've managed to get back home okay. Take one step at a time. X
Oh Parkerpoo I am so sorry to hear this, I can only try to imagine how you feel right now. Please remember to take care of yourself first and get support from wherever you can.
I'm so sorry. You must be completely heartbroken.
Sending lots of love xxxx
Sending lots of love xxxx
@Parkerpoo I am so sorry. It really is unfair that judges can go against everything that is recommended just to make an example
I'm so sorry, even when expecting custodial nothing prepares you for the reality. It must be so much worse when it's unexpected.
I hope you've got home safely.
The first few days are hard to process. As Upset has said, it may take a few days to speak to him - but you will get through it and he will be okay.
We are here for you and there are a few of us on here that might be able to help with some of the practicalities.
Take care and look after yourself.
I hope you've got home safely.
The first few days are hard to process. As Upset has said, it may take a few days to speak to him - but you will get through it and he will be okay.
We are here for you and there are a few of us on here that might be able to help with some of the practicalities.
Take care and look after yourself.
I'm really sorry to hear this is not what you were expecting. I hope you have spoken to someone even the helpline just to cry and be heard it's always hard at sentancing as we are always hoping for the best. Please take care of yourself you are the most important in all of this. X
Please take care of you
Sending you a
Massive virtual hug
Anne
xXx
Sending you a
Massive virtual hug
Anne
xXx
I am so sorry do you have someone with you for support tonight?
You are not alone we are all here for you xxx
You are not alone we are all here for you xxx
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Glad to hear you are home safely and have support. There is absolutely no logic to sentencing at all so he could actually be telling you the truth. Unexpected custodial against all recommendations is tough for all concerned. Sending strength x
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Morning parkerpoo1
Glad you got home safely and had your son with you x
Deffinatly reach out to your GP
You will still be in shock so just take each day as it comes for now you dont have to make any decisions as yet
You are absolutely not a mug so please dont think that
Please take care xx
Glad you got home safely and had your son with you x
Deffinatly reach out to your GP
You will still be in shock so just take each day as it comes for now you dont have to make any decisions as yet
You are absolutely not a mug so please dont think that
Please take care xx
We had the same about support of family and wife. I think it is something they say to make it look good in court, whether it's true or not.
I'm sorry you're going through this, i found out it was worse than I thought at sentencing- I went to court as I had an inkling there was more to it and I couldn't sit at home waiting to find out the outcome.
I'm sorry you're going through this, i found out it was worse than I thought at sentencing- I went to court as I had an inkling there was more to it and I couldn't sit at home waiting to find out the outcome.
Hi,
Sorry to hear this outcome.
Just picking up on the 30 images. My ex had a similar amount and received a 2 year custodial. He had one distribution as he forwarded it on (back to the same group it was sent from). Judges can be harsher for no real reason.
Take care.
Once you find out his prisoner number sign up to email a prisoner. It's a lifeline.
Sorry to hear this outcome.
Just picking up on the 30 images. My ex had a similar amount and received a 2 year custodial. He had one distribution as he forwarded it on (back to the same group it was sent from). Judges can be harsher for no real reason.
Take care.
Once you find out his prisoner number sign up to email a prisoner. It's a lifeline.
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Parkerpoo1
I'm glad you are ok and that you have spoken to him, you have every right to angry, this has been a huge shock to you x
Dont worry about the drive, the visit, let things settle for you for now then maybe in a day, a week, a month you may want to see him face to face and talk,
I know you have a son 22 and an older young adult, how are they coping?
Are you ok financially but more importantly have you spoke to your GP xx
I'm glad you are ok and that you have spoken to him, you have every right to angry, this has been a huge shock to you x
Dont worry about the drive, the visit, let things settle for you for now then maybe in a day, a week, a month you may want to see him face to face and talk,
I know you have a son 22 and an older young adult, how are they coping?
Are you ok financially but more importantly have you spoke to your GP xx