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Hello everyone,
It was my birthday a couple of days ago and that led me to reflect on how far we have come since this time last year.
This time last year we were still in limbo waiting for charges and very scared about the possible outcome whilst also trying to negotiate a move away to a different area.
Son was sentenced in January and received a 3 year community order with 5years on SOR and SHPO.
We have been extremely lucky in that nothing has been reported in the media as that was a very real fear .
Things haven't all been plain sailing and we have had some issues with Visor and Probation but we are now living in a different place away from all the problems and bad memories and we are beginning to move forward slowly but surely.
im going to take a bit of a back seat from the forum for a while but will check in for Upset Mum's weekly update.
I honestly can't thank all you wonderful people on here enough for all your support and advice which has helped me to get where I am now -this is a journey nobody wants to be on and we are are incredible people.
If anyone wants to message me then please do so-love and strength to you all xxx
It was my birthday a couple of days ago and that led me to reflect on how far we have come since this time last year.
This time last year we were still in limbo waiting for charges and very scared about the possible outcome whilst also trying to negotiate a move away to a different area.
Son was sentenced in January and received a 3 year community order with 5years on SOR and SHPO.
We have been extremely lucky in that nothing has been reported in the media as that was a very real fear .
Things haven't all been plain sailing and we have had some issues with Visor and Probation but we are now living in a different place away from all the problems and bad memories and we are beginning to move forward slowly but surely.
im going to take a bit of a back seat from the forum for a while but will check in for Upset Mum's weekly update.
I honestly can't thank all you wonderful people on here enough for all your support and advice which has helped me to get where I am now -this is a journey nobody wants to be on and we are are incredible people.
If anyone wants to message me then please do so-love and strength to you all xxx
Thank you for your reflections. It is very hard to hold on to in the midst of the tornado, but there is some comfort and truth in the cliches, including:
- all things pass
- nothing is for ever
- every cloud has a silver lining
- just because someone has a past doesn't mean they don't have a future
- life is more than about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about finding a way to dance in the rain.
Wishing you and yours every happiness for what's ahead.
- all things pass
- nothing is for ever
- every cloud has a silver lining
- just because someone has a past doesn't mean they don't have a future
- life is more than about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about finding a way to dance in the rain.
Wishing you and yours every happiness for what's ahead.
Hi Seaside. I'm glad you're moving on and thank you for posting, as reading that people are moving on really gives me hope for our son as he starts his adult life that where we once though his future was doomed. Its the glimmer of hope we need xxx
Hi Seaside, thanks for posting. I am where you were last year still waiting for charges, so it is nice to hear from someone out the other end.
Hearing about families moving on in a positive way is really important to those of us still in the eye of the storm.
I wish you and your son nothing but the best.
Hearing about families moving on in a positive way is really important to those of us still in the eye of the storm.
I wish you and your son nothing but the best.
I had a tear in my eye when I read this Seaside, it gives us all hope as we claw our way back to some sort of normality.
Slowly but surely it will happen - wish you and your family the best xxxxxx
Slowly but surely it will happen - wish you and your family the best xxxxxx
@seaside
first off I just wanted to say Happy belated birthday.
secondly I am so happy that things are moving forward for you and your family, may you have peace and happiness for the rest of your life, you certainly deserve to be happy
xx
first off I just wanted to say Happy belated birthday.
secondly I am so happy that things are moving forward for you and your family, may you have peace and happiness for the rest of your life, you certainly deserve to be happy
xx
Seaside:-( reading this x
Happy belated Birthday xx
But on the brighter side I wish you and your son and family more days filled with love , happiness one chapter closes and a new journey ahead for you all, there may be bumps in the road ahead but you will continue to see the sunshine in your life xx
Please pass on my best wishes to your son he deserves to live his life with better days and he will continue to move on , look how far you have come so far , and having a mum like you to support him truly does show him he deserves to get past this xx
Will miss you but glad you will still check in now and again xx
Happy belated Birthday xx
But on the brighter side I wish you and your son and family more days filled with love , happiness one chapter closes and a new journey ahead for you all, there may be bumps in the road ahead but you will continue to see the sunshine in your life xx
Please pass on my best wishes to your son he deserves to live his life with better days and he will continue to move on , look how far you have come so far , and having a mum like you to support him truly does show him he deserves to get past this xx
Will miss you but glad you will still check in now and again xx