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Bettyboo65

Member since
June 2022

339 posts

Posted Sat April 22, 2023 8:37pmReport post

So today I read on social media police informing people if they are worried about the knock to check out LFF.... for one stupid ass comment by a subnormal person to comment " no, the minute you look at anything like that of a child you're a paedophile who needs looking up for life and the key thrown away".

I literally have no words, just pure anger. I know how my person got to this point and he is not a paedophile! Hie is a caring gentle human with an amazing heart and I love him xx people really need educating and the majority of these offender's need help not condemning

Parkerpoo1

Member since
July 2022

252 posts

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Bettyboo65

Member since
June 2022

339 posts

Posted Sat April 22, 2023 8:52pmReport post

It really does break my heart and I completely understand when they think there's nowhere else to go from here, suicidal thoughts etc.

In my eyes the people who condemn without thought are worse human beings than most of the offenders!

CornishTea

Member since
August 2019

91 posts

Posted Sat April 22, 2023 9:06pmReport post

Hi,

I agree, I so often want to comment but obviously don't want to draw attention to myself.
The ignorance is astounding and yes you are right this offence is classed as the lowest of the low! Any cases on social media, generally want the offenders castrated, hung, etc

Love

Cornish Tea x

SAL

Member since
December 2021

895 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 6:22amReport post

I can totally understand your frustrated feeling on this. Like one of the other posts says - I do often want to comment on threads like this. But I am also glad that the support has been mentioned - I often get angry with reports for dramatic miss leading headlines, but also that there is jo sign posting for the help avaliable.

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2540 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 7:23amReport post

As we all say you know absolutely nothing until you have been on our journey. What was written about my son was foul and obscene - upset me beyond words. No one is interested in the background/circumstances it's a case of let's get the whip out and lash out at these men .....

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AnotherMum

Member since
January 2022

75 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 11:34amReport post

Funnily enough, I did once respond to a vicious comment made regarding the female solicitor defending, pointing out that everyone has the right to legal representation and she was just doing her job. And this was before I was ever embroiled in the situation.

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2394 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 12:15pmReport post

Totally agree with you all and until you are on this journey no one can ever understand xx

River

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 6:54pmReport post

I completely agree and also have similar feelings of anger towards narrow minded stigamised views - especially from internet trolls and obnoxious keyboard warriors.

I generally hate stigma of any kind and society's stigma around this particular offense is horribly strong. People need educating as it's so misunderstood.

Loobylou

Member since
March 2022

28 posts

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 7:04pmReport post

And it is especially hard if your so called friends (2 of ours) joined those trolls in sharing the article that had hit the local news (typical biased, sensationalist reporting) on facebook adding their own horrible hurtful opinions along with 'oh poor me, I knew a P...'. Sorry, this is a real sore point for me, as they condemned me right along with him. I said at the time, it would be easier if he'd robbed a bank! People can be so unbelievably nasty, and don't give a s*** who they hurt.

Parkerpoo1

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July 2022

252 posts

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Bitterbean

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December 2021

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Parkerpoo1

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252 posts

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