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Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

913 posts

Hello ladies.



Hope we are all doing ok.



Just wondered if your other halve kept there jobs after sentencing ?



Big ((hugs)) xx

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 11:29amReport post

loulou74

Member since
September 2022

257 posts

Mine didn't. Partly his own fault as he buried his head in the sand and hoped it would all go away. He had a senior position, and he was arrested at work and then told them a lie about why. It was in the media after sentencing, and his boss flipped as he'd lied to him and for what he'd done. He did speak to an employment solicitor after arrest but he'd already told the lie to his boss, but I also don't think they gave him effective advice. Just kept saying they needed to wait to see what happens and how the company reacts. Having read Lee's comment in the week about mediation with ACAS, I think if he'd been open with his boss and possibly with a mediator, he may have kept his job. But he had also realised that the job wasn't helping his stress levels, one of the reasons why he offended, and so didn't necessarily want to stay. But obviously the impact of conviction, SOR and being sacked for gross misconduct isn't great for finding another job.

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 12:43pmReport post

Anne20

Member since
March 2021

142 posts

Mine didn't

It was in his contract, he went quietly and was able to take retirement a few months later on his private pension.

He really misses chatting with people, he keeps himself busy with all those DIY jobs that never got done.

X

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 1:42pmReport post

K4

Member since
October 2022

623 posts

My person forced to resign from job during investigation (was in a position of trust). Not been sentenced yet but current contract is not in position of trust and has no disclosure requirements.

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 2:32pmReport post

Confused&worried

Member since
June 2022

328 posts

My husband has.

He works in a manual trade with no chance of interacting with under 18's. He made it clear to the authorities that his job is important to him and, luckily, no-one has forced him to share.

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 4:26pmReport post

Life feels over

Member since
September 2022

412 posts

Mine was in a position of trust so destroyed that career and 'was let go' during RUI. He secured another job which he loved but as his custodial was unexpected I resigned on his behalf. He's determined to find work once released but I feel he's underestimating the challenges he's going to face.

Posted Sun April 23, 2023 5:46pmReport post

Parkerpoo1

Member since
July 2022

252 posts

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September 2021

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Posted Mon April 24, 2023 4:01am
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Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1201 posts

Hi Chelsea,

My person resigned. He found a nights job in November last year after 18 months unemployed post sentencing. What information were you looking for? You're post sentencing too aren't you, apologies if I'm wrong on that xxx

Posted Mon April 24, 2023 7:32amReport post

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

913 posts

Hiya Distressed

Hows everything going with yourself. Hope your other half is going ok with his job ?



xx

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LifeRuined23

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June 2023

63 posts

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Ocean

Member since
September 2023

965 posts

My son didn't. He had a job job with a good carer ahead of him but was dismissed after sentencing.

Posted Fri June 21, 2024 9:30pmReport post

Cherry

Member since
January 2023

111 posts

Just wanted to add a positive one my partner was honest with them after arrest his boss has been supportive throughout even after it being in the local paper in the area where he works luckily no one had read it otherwise they'd of probably of had to let him go.

Posted Fri June 21, 2024 10:29pmReport post

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

355 posts

My person was dismissed whilst on bail. Two months after arrest. He's currently looking at going self employed so can work until this goes to court and we know the outcome

Posted Sat June 22, 2024 3:37pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

801 posts

No, my ex was remanded and then got three years in prison.

Posted Sun June 23, 2024 10:01amReport post

Poppop

Member since
September 2023

83 posts

My son lost is job,even before getting charged, as it was posted all over Facebook by vilantes

And is company said it was bad for company reputation

He then got another whist on rui

Once he got charged the solicitors advised to send email,he lost job again

As the solicitors said it will be in papers and Facebook after pre hearing, which it was not

He no unemployed waiting for court date

Posted Sun June 23, 2024 10:10amReport post

Dad005

Member since
March 2024

50 posts

Hi,



My son lost his job as he had to move. His relationship ended and she didn't want him there .



He had to move a fair few miles to come and live with me.

Posted Sun June 23, 2024 11:17pmReport post

STELL

Member since
June 2024

1 post

Hi,



Can only sympathise about all the hurt and stress these actions cause us.

My OH had a good job, told his employer after arrest when court date was coming up, employer supported and went not guilty all the way, due to being intoxicated at time of alleged offense didn't help and was found guilty, tried to appeal no luck and extra time given as no early guilty plea reduction.

Due to possible problems for the company was dismissed in prison. Did 2.5 years out now and found a job within 3 months of release as no dbs asked for and luckily no news on Google etc of case. So if determined can find another job after all this but still stressful for him thinking employer may find out etc. Just need to worry if it happens and not think when it may happen.



KR

Posted Mon June 24, 2024 5:19pmReport post

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

913 posts

Hiya Stell.



fingers crossed he keeps moving forward with his work.



xx

Posted Wed July 3, 2024 10:38amReport post

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