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Hi. We had the knock 2 months ago and my husband is being investigated with his bail reviewed mid May. I think he will be charged for viewing Cat A images. I currently have to do two supervised visits a week which I hate but do for my son who really misses his dad. My husband has said his solicitor thinks they will loosen his bail conditions and allow unsupervised access. He is also talking about taking my son on holiday to france in the summer. I do not trust him to have that kind of access. He tried to commit suicide the day after the knock and also won't accept I am divorcing him. I am finding his behaviour very unsettling. Is there likely to be a chance those bail conditions change? I definitely do not want him to take my son out of the country!

His bail conditions were no direct contact and SS recommended 2 supervised visits a week. They have now closed the case which is a bit odd. And my husband's divorce lawyer has sent a letter saying he wants to do a mediated session to discuss access. All a bit odd bearing in mind the police and SS will have control over that! The key thing is that I do not want my son taken out the country or away from me for any long periods soon. Feel my husband is mentally unstable and making no progress even with all the help he is getting. He is very much in victim mode.