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Anyone in Ireland? Feeling very isolated

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Fifa78

Member since
December 2022

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Posted Tue May 2, 2023 1:33pmReport post

Hi Everyone,
Apologies if this is not the right place for this post or if I shouldn't have started a new discussion. I have read a lot of posts here and it seems like a great community.

The way things go here in Ireland seems to be a bit different than in the UK, I was wondering if there was anyone on here from Ireland who has been through this?

There is nothing like this forum in Ireland.

SOme background to what brought me here...

The gardai came to our home in mid December 2022,
they took away devices and said it would take a few months for them to be checked.

I've since been told (by therapists) that it could be up to a year, then I was told by another it would probably be 2 years, then another said it would proabably be about 5 years.

I really don't think I can live like this for the next 5 years.
At the moment I have decided to stay, it's easy at the moment,
but I know it will get a lot worse.

I have have told one friend, they are very supportive.
But in hindsight I think I probably shouldn't have,
but I feel so alone and isolated.


Thank you

Bluebellblue

Member since
September 2022

27 posts

Posted Tue May 2, 2023 2:12pmReport post

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Newlady

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April 2021

644 posts

Posted Tue May 2, 2023 2:17pmReport post

I'm from Ireland, I'm post sentencing so if you prefer private message me and I'll help you any way I can honey x

Bluebellblue

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September 2022

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Posted Tue May 2, 2023 2:22pmReport post

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Newlady

Member since
April 2021

644 posts

Posted Tue May 2, 2023 2:34pmReport post

Thank you , I'm in north . Yeah good days bad days but mostly good now honey . Message me if you need anything

Life feels over

Member since
September 2022

412 posts

Posted Tue May 2, 2023 6:48pmReport post

I'm sorry you find yourself on this journey but am so happy that you have reached out and made contacts sharing your experience. I hope this makes you feel less alone x

Fifa78

Member since
December 2022

3 posts

Posted Thu May 4, 2023 12:15pmReport post

Thank you all for replying,

I appreciate it so much.

I'm currently unable to send private messages,

It's not been activated for me yet.

Could a moderator activate it for me?

Thank you in advance

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Bluebellblue

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September 2022

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Posted Fri May 5, 2023 12:11pmReport post

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Fifa78

Member since
December 2022

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Posted Sun May 7, 2023 12:47pmReport post

Hi Bluebellblue,
My person hasn't got a solicitor yet, I think he's delusional that when the times comes, he can just plead guilty and accept whatever punishment is due. I know he needs to find a solicitor, I figured there was time for that, but I actually don't know for sure.

If it's ok with you I will send you a private message?
I can do that now,

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Bluebellblue

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