SS and getting partner home
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Hello All
Im after some advice as im completely having a meltdown today feeling like there is no way forward. M partner is coming to the end of his sentence this October and has a shpo. I have two small children with my partner but he hasn't been allowed to return home since his arrest 3 years ago .
Im reaching out as i dont know what to do and i dont want to give up. My partner is classed as medium risk via probation but on the low scale of medium risk. SS informed me yesterday that they wouldn't consider allowing him home unless his risk is lowered. However probation have stated in all there years that they have never lowered someone's risk after there conviction. Which to me only means he will never be allowed home for us to be a family. Weve done everything SS have asked of us, therapy inform program and ive done an assessment to try snd supervise him with our children. Still waiting for ab answer on that as children sre on child protection plan.
Everyone keeps saying it cant go on forever, I've said i want him home but social gave me the impression that cant happen and theyd end up taking us to PLO to move things forward. Please does anyone have any experience of partner being allowed home or any advice on how to deal with Ss.
Im really scared
Im after some advice as im completely having a meltdown today feeling like there is no way forward. M partner is coming to the end of his sentence this October and has a shpo. I have two small children with my partner but he hasn't been allowed to return home since his arrest 3 years ago .
Im reaching out as i dont know what to do and i dont want to give up. My partner is classed as medium risk via probation but on the low scale of medium risk. SS informed me yesterday that they wouldn't consider allowing him home unless his risk is lowered. However probation have stated in all there years that they have never lowered someone's risk after there conviction. Which to me only means he will never be allowed home for us to be a family. Weve done everything SS have asked of us, therapy inform program and ive done an assessment to try snd supervise him with our children. Still waiting for ab answer on that as children sre on child protection plan.
Everyone keeps saying it cant go on forever, I've said i want him home but social gave me the impression that cant happen and theyd end up taking us to PLO to move things forward. Please does anyone have any experience of partner being allowed home or any advice on how to deal with Ss.
Im really scared
Hi,
I'm so sorry you are having such a shit time, well done for being strong and carrying on the fight for your family.
We had a very similar situation and a very hard time with ss- they took us to PLO. But actually this was the best thing they ever did for us, we requested an independent assessment (had Professor Craig) and my husband moved home a week after we got the assessment back. Just stepped down to CIN and they want to close our case now.
Happy for you to message me, or look back for my posts.
You've got this and you can get there xx
I'm so sorry you are having such a shit time, well done for being strong and carrying on the fight for your family.
We had a very similar situation and a very hard time with ss- they took us to PLO. But actually this was the best thing they ever did for us, we requested an independent assessment (had Professor Craig) and my husband moved home a week after we got the assessment back. Just stepped down to CIN and they want to close our case now.
Happy for you to message me, or look back for my posts.
You've got this and you can get there xx