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PPU/VISOR visit - Sunday

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SoTired

Member since
March 2021

413 posts

Hi all,

Has anyone had experience of these visits on a Sunday? We weren't in and my son was at work but I answered via the doorbell.


Just feel as though that sense of being "safe" on a Sunday has now gone.



Hope you're all doing well x

Posted Sun June 4, 2023 12:48pmReport post

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

We haven't had a visit yet but she did say it could be any day as they work shifts

Posted Sun June 4, 2023 2:33pmReport post

SoTired

Member since
March 2021

413 posts

Thanks ladies,

I did expect a visit after the FSA has been completed this week and resulted in a glowing report to be honest about my ability to protect and the safeguarding measures we have adopted. He will have been emailed that on Friday, but also, it was worded in a way to support us as I raised concerns about a possible abuse of power and wanting to protect against that. I just didn't expect a Sunday.



x

Posted Sun June 4, 2023 7:26pmReport post

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

At least you are prepared that they will be out again soon. I'm dreading first visit. I hope you enjoy the rest of your Sunday. Ours seem ok and have helped alot with ss on the meetings she did a house visit with probation as part of the assessment with social quickly checked his phone and said if we don't see her don't panick she will only be out more if there's something she's concerned about so I'm taking that we're six months in as his doing what he should be xx

Posted Sun June 4, 2023 8:47pmReport post

SoTired

Member since
March 2021

413 posts

Exactly... been up and sorted his room for him as he will be at work until 11pm, sent a text to mitigate against them coming out early doors tomorrow as my son doesn't get in until about midnight and then needs to unwind for a couple of hours so doesn't sleep until around 2:30 after a 12 hour shift. That way, he can't be regarded as refusing entry or raise suspicion as he just doesn't wake up. Sleeps really heavily after shifts and I have experience of this officer. Explained he is not allowed his phone at work which is why I was texting on his behalf. So hopefully, he won't come at 8:30am which he has done in the past and may cut him a little slack.



Fhis officer isn't necessarily the most "helpful" - ex CID DI. His methods demonstrate his past experiences possibly and regard for my son. Not really holistic!


My main issue now, is that I've washed my hair and now, NOW, I have to dry it! Urgh!

Posted Sun June 4, 2023 9:36pm
Edited Sun June 4, 2023 9:37pmReport post

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Fingers crossed they don't come out early. Hope you found the get go to dry your hair I hate it too takes so long aha

Posted Mon June 5, 2023 7:12amReport post

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