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Good morning All,
I've not posted for a while, trying to get on with life the best we can. Tomorrow is Crown court, two years since the knock & finally its our turn. We had a Crown date some months ago but it was adjourned one hour beginning we were due in court so the roller coaster ride starts again.
Praying for a suspended sentence, I ask that you keep me & the children in your thoughts.
Thanks xxx
I've not posted for a while, trying to get on with life the best we can. Tomorrow is Crown court, two years since the knock & finally its our turn. We had a Crown date some months ago but it was adjourned one hour beginning we were due in court so the roller coaster ride starts again.
Praying for a suspended sentence, I ask that you keep me & the children in your thoughts.
Thanks xxx
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Positive thoughts and strength sent your way x
My thoughts are with you and the children xxx
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I'll be thinking about you .I know how it feels we went through it 3 times being actually sentencing because barrister didn't have anything. I didn't go to court but was a really stressful day
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Will be thinking of you all and sending so many hugs whatever the outcome x
Wishing you lots of luck and the outcome you're hoping for. Xx
Strength and hugs sent to you all for tomorrow xx as hard as it is you will have an outcome xx
We're all stood beside you. It's one step nearer to this nightmare ending xx
My thoughts are with you and yours x
Sending you strength x
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I hope today goes as well as ot can for you x
Good luck I hope it goes to how you want it to
All the best for today and fingers crossed for the best outcome possible x
Good luck today, I'm thinking of you
Thinking of you
Thank you all for your thoughts & kind words. I'm absolutely devastated, he has been given 27mths & must serve a minimum of 15mths. I've no idea how I tell my 17yr old daughter who adores him & my 11yr old son who is totally unaware of the arrest ever actually happening. The judge was brutal, right from the off it was clear how it would go.
I'm just in shock, frightened if it's in the media (no press in court).
I will update fully once I've had the chance to absorb everything. Thank you for being there xxx
I'm just in shock, frightened if it's in the media (no press in court).
I will update fully once I've had the chance to absorb everything. Thank you for being there xxx
@emeraldrose I empathise with the shock and I'm so sorry this is your outcome xx
So so sorry to hear this and especially having to tell your children. No parent wants to have to tell their child something that will cause them hurt and upset. I hope you have support in all this - yet again it seems that the sentences handed down can be so varied. Big hug to you and your family.
@emeraldrose
i know where you are right now, mines currently serving a 3year sentence, my eldest knows all, my youngest knows nothing but he's only a toddler but misses his daddy very much.
if you want to message me at any point feel free.
sending loads of hugs to you all
i know where you are right now, mines currently serving a 3year sentence, my eldest knows all, my youngest knows nothing but he's only a toddler but misses his daddy very much.
if you want to message me at any point feel free.
sending loads of hugs to you all
I empathise with the shock and all the feelings that come with a custodial. My partner is serving 20 months inside.
If there is any practical advise or help you need related to prison please reach out. There are a few people on here that unfortunately in similar situations.
You may have heard of the charity Children Heard and Seen, but they can support you and your children.
Sending love and care your way.
If there is any practical advise or help you need related to prison please reach out. There are a few people on here that unfortunately in similar situations.
You may have heard of the charity Children Heard and Seen, but they can support you and your children.
Sending love and care your way.
So sorry to hear the outcome for you all xx
When you are ready we are here to offer any advise and support, my son was given a lengthy prison sentence so totally understand xx
When you are ready we are here to offer any advise and support, my son was given a lengthy prison sentence so totally understand xx
I am right here with you. Nothing in our lives to date can prepare us for this situation. My person was sentenced to custodial, we have less than two-thirds to go. We have children. I can't pretend it's anything other than devastating and horrific, but you (and we!) will get through it. Every passing day is a day further away from the badness and towards the goodness - and the day when this will finally be OVER! In the meantime, try to find any positives (I try to tell myself that I get to enjoy my kids all to myself for a while!!!!) Take care, and feel free to message me any any hour of the day or night if helpful.
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Virtual hugs, Emerald Rose, thinking of you
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Big hugs I'm sorry the judge was so harsh . Have you thought about an appeal ? I really can't imagine what you're going through my thoughts are with you xx
I'm so sorry this is the outcome you've recieved. I'm sure you must be in a world of pain and devastation right now and I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling. Sadly I have no advice, just sending lots of sympathy and support. Xx
I am so so sorry to hear the outcome and can't begin to imagine how you are feeling. Do you have anyone with you who can support you today ?
Please please remember that you are not alone and when you are ready we are all here for you.
Sending you so much love and virtual hugs xx
Please please remember that you are not alone and when you are ready we are all here for you.
Sending you so much love and virtual hugs xx
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Sending my love your way please be kind to yourself and take as much time as you need. none of it is in our control xx
So sorry to hear this :( x
hi my lovely,
really do feel for you it is an horrendous time. My son was given a long sentence, more than was predicted, the judge didn't like him either, it's so sad as you know the 'good' in your loved one..... and want to scream out.
all I can offer, is throw yourself into the practicalities of the situation, how you can support your person if that's your decision. Once you've told the children, sadly another painful hurdle, try toget your mindset focussed on the practical. Saying this I understand the emotions and sadness of the situation are never far away....
my situation is very difficult, I haven't seen my boy in two years and christ how I miss him - BUT we will get through this, I say as I hold your hand xxxxxxxxx
really do feel for you it is an horrendous time. My son was given a long sentence, more than was predicted, the judge didn't like him either, it's so sad as you know the 'good' in your loved one..... and want to scream out.
all I can offer, is throw yourself into the practicalities of the situation, how you can support your person if that's your decision. Once you've told the children, sadly another painful hurdle, try toget your mindset focussed on the practical. Saying this I understand the emotions and sadness of the situation are never far away....
my situation is very difficult, I haven't seen my boy in two years and christ how I miss him - BUT we will get through this, I say as I hold your hand xxxxxxxxx