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Finding out more.. hitting the angry stage

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Jotieflower

Member since
June 2023

16 posts

Posted Mon June 12, 2023 10:37pmReport post

My good friends spoke with the social worker today. Their daughter was a subject of my OH's fantasy. It was disclosed to him that on the thread chat which he got arrested for, was a discussion with another adult about meeting each others children.

The going down the rabbit hole and stepping over the line due to loneliness is one thing but to mention our daughter and have discussion about the sexual abuse of children is a hard pill to swallow. To make matters worse, it has been disclosed that part of the discussion was about meeting each others children!

How can I possibly ever consider letting him get anywhere near my children when he was possibly considering introducing them to another person who enjoys similar content??

I am so enraged right now.. there are no more tears and the little bit of compassion for my OH is gone.

I just don't understand... how could he? The person I know LOVES hi children and would do anything to protect them.

Nemesis

Member since
July 2021

125 posts

Posted Mon June 12, 2023 10:55pmReport post

I hear you. And I completely understand.

I am a little further on in your journey so I send hugs.
it doesn't get easier, but you will have the strength to do what you need to do for your situation

be kind to yourself,