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River

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 5:15pmReport post

Afternoon all,

I haven't posted on here for a few weeks as I realised I was getting a bit obsessed with reading the forum, and since making the decision to end things with my partner I just needed some distance from it all.

For those of you who've read my earlier posts you'll know my now ex-BF received the Knock in March this year and I made the decision to end the relationship a month later.

Well two weeks ago, he received the incredible result and verdict we all hope for: NFA by the police. I couldn't and still can't really believe it, especially as it's happened so quickly.

I feel guilty posting it on here when I'm hyper aware there are so many who are still in limbo or receive sentences. I wish the same for all of you still in limbo and I hope this isn't too upsetting to read. I hope you don't mind me sharing as this forum has provided a solace for me in these last two months but I know I appreciate reading occasional good news amongst the bad.

There is still a lot of processing and healing to be done. Whether we get back together is very much TBC as this doesn't take away all of the hurt we've both dealt to each other. But I just wanted to share the news with you all and thank you all again for being non-judgemental and kind voices when I've never needed them more. xx

Runawaygirl

Member since
March 2023

85 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 5:19pmReport post

Oh I'm so pleased for you. Whether or not you get back together with your ex, this whole experience is so traumatising even with a NFA result. At least you can now move on x

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 5:49pmReport post

River,

That's brilliant news! Don't feel guilty, it's great to see positive stories. Xx

K4

Member since
October 2022

611 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 6:30pmReport post

Oh River, thank you for sharing and all the best with what comes next. Lots for you to process



xx

CrystalTears

Member since
April 2023

7 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 6:33pmReport post

Hi River,

That is wonderful news!

If you don't mind me asking, was the result given before or after devices had been checked?

Polly Pocket

Member since
May 2022

440 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 6:45pmReport post

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Seaside

Member since
July 2022

560 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 7:26pmReport post

River this is fantastic news I am so pleased for you go forward and live your life now xx

Dobster

Member since
May 2023

33 posts

Posted Fri June 16, 2023 9:33pmReport post

I'm made up for you River. It's the result we all pray for. Best wishes to you for the future.

Dobster xx

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2396 posts

Posted Sat June 17, 2023 9:58amReport post

River x

That is wonderful news for both you and your Ex , never feel guilty about sharing your news I am truly pleased for you xx

Take time to decide on what you decide to do but whatever you decide I wish you all the happiness you deserve xx

River

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Sat June 17, 2023 3:36pmReport post

As always thank you everyone, your support and kind words are greatly appreciated as always xx

Cherry

Member since
January 2023

107 posts

Posted Sat June 17, 2023 4:33pmReport post

Thanks for sharing your good news River I hope your doing well and wishing you the best on your future whatever you decide xx

Bitterbean

Member since
December 2021

635 posts

Posted Sun June 18, 2023 2:39pmReport post

River so pleased to hear this news!

Dawn19

Member since
June 2023

147 posts

Posted Tue June 20, 2023 10:04pmReport post

That is fantastic news. I'm really pleased for you and it gives me hope.

I hope you are able to move on.