Fridays check in x
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Afternoon lovlies x
Hope you are all keeping as well as can be xx
Sorry to see so many new people posting lately, but for you who have joined there is a wealth of beautiful ladies that have been where you are, so reach out for help and support xx
As you know I am moving tomorrow and oh my good god I am sick of packing its never ending but it's been therapeutic clearing out so much junk (where on earth does it come from)
Spoke to my son he is ok due to the move were missing out on seeing him for 2 weeks :-( but he understands with everything going on xx
I just wanted to check in on you all xx
Back to the packing malarkey for me xx
Take care xx
Hope you are all keeping as well as can be xx
Sorry to see so many new people posting lately, but for you who have joined there is a wealth of beautiful ladies that have been where you are, so reach out for help and support xx
As you know I am moving tomorrow and oh my good god I am sick of packing its never ending but it's been therapeutic clearing out so much junk (where on earth does it come from)
Spoke to my son he is ok due to the move were missing out on seeing him for 2 weeks :-( but he understands with everything going on xx
I just wanted to check in on you all xx
Back to the packing malarkey for me xx
Take care xx
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Yes good luck Upset / a brand new start...... I'm sure once in your new place you'll settle quickly. I'll be thinking about you.
As for me although being a little tired I've had a good week - glad it's weekend.
My son is fine, gardening has been cancelled as they've had 'water' problems, but they are getting more and more time 'out' which is good. I sent him photos which he received the next day (suprise)! He liked that.
Been some very sad posts this week, my heart goes out to those families x
As for me although being a little tired I've had a good week - glad it's weekend.
My son is fine, gardening has been cancelled as they've had 'water' problems, but they are getting more and more time 'out' which is good. I sent him photos which he received the next day (suprise)! He liked that.
Been some very sad posts this week, my heart goes out to those families x
Upset my dear friend wishing you all the very best for your move tomorrow.
This week I have been back in the area where I used to live catching up with some friends -it felt a bit strange but it has really made me realise that it is the people and not the place that matter.
I have lost someone who I thought was a friend throughout this nightmare ( she decided to distance herself from me despite having known both myself and my son for 30+years) but I am incredibly lucky to have 2 other close friends who have been just incredible and who I know will always be there for me so there were many tears and hugs shared.
This experience really shows you who is there for you doesn't it ?
This week I have been back in the area where I used to live catching up with some friends -it felt a bit strange but it has really made me realise that it is the people and not the place that matter.
I have lost someone who I thought was a friend throughout this nightmare ( she decided to distance herself from me despite having known both myself and my son for 30+years) but I am incredibly lucky to have 2 other close friends who have been just incredible and who I know will always be there for me so there were many tears and hugs shared.
This experience really shows you who is there for you doesn't it ?
Hi Upset! Hope the move goes well - don't forget to write room names on boxes, we learnt that the hard way!! Especially the one with bedding! And keep a kettle and teabags in your personal belongings plus mugs (we remembered the kettle but not the mugs!!!!!)
I've had a pleasant week although I have to push myself to actually do things and have to speak sternly to myself as I'm forever thinking up excuses not to go out. I did bite the bullet yesterday and got dolled up and went to Glyndebourne with a friend who loves opera and last year persuaded me to go with her. I thought I'd hate the opera (I didn't as it's done so well and there are subtitles so you know what's going on) plus as it's so posh I worried I'd let the side down in some way but it was actually great fun watching all the swanky and glamorous people dressed up to the nines. It really is 'how the other half live' as we picnicked on the lawns. Fun for a day but nice to get back to normal old me today.
Taking my son to see his children tomorrow and we may go to the local animal park and then the obligatory MacDonalds or if I'm lucky KFC! A long long day with 3 hours drive each way but so glad to do it.
Have a good weekend, everyone!
I've had a pleasant week although I have to push myself to actually do things and have to speak sternly to myself as I'm forever thinking up excuses not to go out. I did bite the bullet yesterday and got dolled up and went to Glyndebourne with a friend who loves opera and last year persuaded me to go with her. I thought I'd hate the opera (I didn't as it's done so well and there are subtitles so you know what's going on) plus as it's so posh I worried I'd let the side down in some way but it was actually great fun watching all the swanky and glamorous people dressed up to the nines. It really is 'how the other half live' as we picnicked on the lawns. Fun for a day but nice to get back to normal old me today.
Taking my son to see his children tomorrow and we may go to the local animal park and then the obligatory MacDonalds or if I'm lucky KFC! A long long day with 3 hours drive each way but so glad to do it.
Have a good weekend, everyone!
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Upset I hope your move goes alright tomorrow. I alwayd say I have a up and down week but this was truly one. It was a first year anniversary of the knock this week. I got really anxious and down about it. Ended up arguing with my daughter over nothing and frankly wanted to leave my home and not go back. Day of the knock comes and the visor did a spot check, could they have not done this another day? PTSD mode. I shook and cried. But went with OH for an afternoon tea, and though it was not the best it was the first time in a year we went out together and it went OK. Otherwise it was just walking the dogs. The day has come and gone and now I feel so much better. Nothing much planned for this week. Had my hair done today so thats looking nice but was appalled at the price. I might have to go grey!
Hope everyone here manages a good week. We all deserve it. X
Upset I hope your move goes alright tomorrow. I alwayd say I have a up and down week but this was truly one. It was a first year anniversary of the knock this week. I got really anxious and down about it. Ended up arguing with my daughter over nothing and frankly wanted to leave my home and not go back. Day of the knock comes and the visor did a spot check, could they have not done this another day? PTSD mode. I shook and cried. But went with OH for an afternoon tea, and though it was not the best it was the first time in a year we went out together and it went OK. Otherwise it was just walking the dogs. The day has come and gone and now I feel so much better. Nothing much planned for this week. Had my hair done today so thats looking nice but was appalled at the price. I might have to go grey!
Hope everyone here manages a good week. We all deserve it. X
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I am so glad you decided to go out and you enjoy it, I have become a bit of a hermit since this happened with my son and my relationship broke up not directly because of my son bit how ot changed me and the 2nd husband couldn't understand why I was a complete mess! We had great long weekends away abroad so I really miss that part but I am in a new journey and to be honest so long as my son is doing ok then so am I xx
Enjoy your day as much as you can with your son and grandchildren and of course either the Mcds or KFC at least your not cooking xx
A long drive but so worth it x
I am so glad you decided to go out and you enjoy it, I have become a bit of a hermit since this happened with my son and my relationship broke up not directly because of my son bit how ot changed me and the 2nd husband couldn't understand why I was a complete mess! We had great long weekends away abroad so I really miss that part but I am in a new journey and to be honest so long as my son is doing ok then so am I xx
Enjoy your day as much as you can with your son and grandchildren and of course either the Mcds or KFC at least your not cooking xx
A long drive but so worth it x
Webb89 x
Anniversarys are the worst, but you went out for afternoon tea and that in itself is a big step for both of you xx
I think we let of steam sometimes with the wrong people, I remember I got really drunk and was in pity mode and me and my daughter (my rock) had a fall out, the next day I felt awful and she wouldn't talk to me that hurt so much but then later on in the day she sat down and said drinking isn't the answer but she understood I was letting of my emotions that had been built up, the tears just flowed from me , she got upset as she diddnt mean to be angry but was just so concerned for me, they really do get it , xx
Anniversarys are the worst, but you went out for afternoon tea and that in itself is a big step for both of you xx
I think we let of steam sometimes with the wrong people, I remember I got really drunk and was in pity mode and me and my daughter (my rock) had a fall out, the next day I felt awful and she wouldn't talk to me that hurt so much but then later on in the day she sat down and said drinking isn't the answer but she understood I was letting of my emotions that had been built up, the tears just flowed from me , she got upset as she diddnt mean to be angry but was just so concerned for me, they really do get it , xx
Good luck with your move Upset.
It has been a busy week with having Ofsted in, but the week has ended on a high. We had a reunion with loads of ex-pupils visiting. The Principal and DSL have been very supportive about my situation and checks in with me weekly.
My 15 year old daughter has been amazing. I thought I would have to miss my weekly knitting club as my partner/her dad can't be in the house with her on her own. But she says she doesn't want me to miss going as she wouldn't want to miss any of her clubs. So she stays at home while he goes for a long walk for the two hours I'm at the group.
Hope everyone is okay x
It has been a busy week with having Ofsted in, but the week has ended on a high. We had a reunion with loads of ex-pupils visiting. The Principal and DSL have been very supportive about my situation and checks in with me weekly.
My 15 year old daughter has been amazing. I thought I would have to miss my weekly knitting club as my partner/her dad can't be in the house with her on her own. But she says she doesn't want me to miss going as she wouldn't want to miss any of her clubs. So she stays at home while he goes for a long walk for the two hours I'm at the group.
Hope everyone is okay x
Parkerpoo1 x
Ahh I totally understand how you are feeling, I hope he has a lovely holiday, as hard as it is seeing him go off it is also a bit of normality considering he has suffered also with this journey xx
Try to find something to keep you occupied or do something you have wanted to do x
As for spending money why not dont think of the what ifs of the future xx
Ahh I totally understand how you are feeling, I hope he has a lovely holiday, as hard as it is seeing him go off it is also a bit of normality considering he has suffered also with this journey xx
Try to find something to keep you occupied or do something you have wanted to do x
As for spending money why not dont think of the what ifs of the future xx
Dawn x
Oh I bet that was lovely having a reunion and its great you have support x
Your daughter will be your rock through this x
Knitting I am totally useless at it my dear friend used to knit all the time and made my daughter a few jumpers with cartoon characters on them , we still have them 15 years later as a keepsake xx
Oh I bet that was lovely having a reunion and its great you have support x
Your daughter will be your rock through this x
Knitting I am totally useless at it my dear friend used to knit all the time and made my daughter a few jumpers with cartoon characters on them , we still have them 15 years later as a keepsake xx
Thank you upset. My daughter is my rock as well which is why i got so upset after we argued. Parkerpoo1, we both got through the anniversary so that is something to be proud of. We can do this. I never get my house to myself. Take the time to enjoy things you like to do. Hope you are ok.
Hi everyone
Well as some of you know my son was in court on Wednesday. I've tried to be strong all through this last nearly 2 years but crown court traumatised me. I have never felt such fear as I did that day. It was as if I couldn't be strong anymore. Yesterday I just felt numb and then today I've felt like something bad is going to happen (don't ask me what cos I don't have a clue :-)
I also cried for my friend who was my first thought to ring when we left court then remembered she's no longer with us I just want to believe one day I'll feel happy again
I also feel for the new names I've seen this week who are just starting this journey I wish I could wrap them all up in cotton wool
anyway sorry for my ramblings I'll try harder for next week :-) xx
Well as some of you know my son was in court on Wednesday. I've tried to be strong all through this last nearly 2 years but crown court traumatised me. I have never felt such fear as I did that day. It was as if I couldn't be strong anymore. Yesterday I just felt numb and then today I've felt like something bad is going to happen (don't ask me what cos I don't have a clue :-)
I also cried for my friend who was my first thought to ring when we left court then remembered she's no longer with us I just want to believe one day I'll feel happy again
I also feel for the new names I've seen this week who are just starting this journey I wish I could wrap them all up in cotton wool
anyway sorry for my ramblings I'll try harder for next week :-) xx
Mandymoo - sorry to butt in here, but remember you've had an horrendous time leading up to sentencing and although no custody was given you still have a rocky ride, it doesn't just go away. A new normal continues to develop for everyone.
Just be kind to yourself, look after you x
Just be kind to yourself, look after you x