Family and Friends Forum

My partner is due to come off sor next year he had 4 years on the sor due to a few iioc being found on his phone. i have 4 children who for obvious reasons have not yet met him (not his children) but we are starting to think about where we go next i do not belive he is a risk to any of them at all but dont feel comfortable looking to the future till hes off the sor. What will happen when he is off regarding meeting my children will ss have to be involved their dad is also a narccisist who spent 12 years emotionally and financially abusing me and never helped care for the children but everyone thinks hes great and i know he will kick up a storm if ever he finds out and im so scared i will lose my kids to him.we want a future and to eventually move in together and get married and ossibly have a child of our own together but cannot find any help as to what happens if we do this when he is no longer on the sor. Im scared ss will be involved and my ex.