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Livvy

Member since
February 2022

30 posts

Posted Tue July 4, 2023 5:31pmReport post

I've been advised by the Social worker that following my swift assessment that we need to go to this meeting. Because I believe my person's narrative they feel this is going to affect my ability to protect her. Our daughter is 12 and while he only had a handful of iioc they were around the same age.
I have always stated that I want us to remain a family which is something I guess they are going to ask at this meeting.

I guess what I want to know is how do I get accross to them that while I believe what he's saying I know the risk is still there. Because they just don't seem to get it.
Sorry for the waffle, I'm just at my wits end

Flower

Member since
February 2023

103 posts

Posted Tue July 4, 2023 6:47pmReport post

I am by no means an expert but I've also told our social worker that I wanted us to move forward as a family.

Your child needs to be 'protected' from your other half as well as harm the internet can do to her, such us accessing content herself or being groomed. Put lots of measurements in place, such as apps like accountable2you, a petcam in the hallway if you like, block all adult content from wifi provider, and have lots of chats with her to raise awareness from dangers online, age of consent, and nude photography/film. Let social worker know you've taken all these steps. I did and our case is closed.Work with them, but do stand your ground. Best of luck X

Edited Tue July 4, 2023 6:50pm