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scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Tue July 11, 2023 7:12amReport post

Hi everyone

Hope everyone is getting by ok,

Ladies that have case closed and children in school, our child's nursery have very kindly rung our new school last week and basically said my oh isn't allowed on school grounds and that is it no safety plan sent across to give them the whole situation nothing. Visor have got in contact with us luckily defended my oh saying he wouldn't be going anyway. I now have a meeting today with visor and school. Is there anything I need to say or is it basically we have the plan, he lives at home with us, his allowed unsupervised and he won't be on school grounds and I haven't even wrote him as a emergency contact

My anxiety is through the roof and I'm really stopping myself saying anything to nursery as I emailed them to say we had been told we didn't have to inform and she even replied. She's been very judgemental against me and oh since finding out. The joy's we have to go to

Edited Tue July 11, 2023 7:13am

K4

Member since
October 2022

611 posts

Posted Tue July 11, 2023 9:03amReport post

The person to speak to at the school is the DSL. They will have lots of experience in dealing with this sort of thing and will probably have a safeguarding plan they can adapt.



I found them brilliant, understanding and supportive. They have to prioritise your child's safety as well as others and this entails them being very discreet.

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Tue July 11, 2023 9:11amReport post

Thankyou the meeting is with one of there safe guarding leads. It's just all very confusing when everyone as told me we don't need to inform due to it going across with the paperwork then nursery putting their penny worth in. So much for a fresh start