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Just more and more lies

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Em_bean

Member since
September 2022

38 posts

Posted Thu July 13, 2023 10:31amReport post

I posted an update yesterday as my ex partner had said the police told him it was with the CPS well this was a lie I found a letter with the charges on it. The date he said was to go the police station is actually the plea hearing at the court.

I'm so bloody annoyed.



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Katie28

Member since
December 2021

183 posts

Posted Thu July 13, 2023 12:24pmReport post

This has to be so soul destroying, one thing I said to my husband on the day of the knock was I would support him as long as he was open and honest with me, I absolutely stressed that if I were to find out he had been lying to me that would be the end of us, to this day he has been fully open and honest which is why I have stood by and supported him at the cost of losing family and friends, your person has to understand what endorsing his lies could mean for you and now you have to think of yourself above him, there can no longer be secrets or deceit if he wants your support, it just doesn't work out like that. Prioritise yourself and stay strong in the meantime, he may need a lot more professional help to deal with his lying!
Best wishes in the meantime.

Katie xx

EA

Member since
August 2022

122 posts

Posted Thu July 13, 2023 10:07pmReport post

I commented on your previous post bur then saw this. I'm so sorry you're going through this.



You ex sounds alot like my person in the lies and hiding. Mines still adamant there's nothing to find but 11 months of investigation isnt for nothing. We have kids together so I have to keep things civil and be around him for the sake of them.



Keep looking after yourself x