Rubbish few days
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Hey folks, I've been distant a while. My mental health isnt great so I've just been hiding in a bubble I suppose.
Yesterday was not a good day. I was shopping with my husband whilst our kids were at their grandparents. We are happily walking through the shop and this guy shouts profanities at us. He was telling his daughter to "keep away from that paedo". I'm used to this, it's been over 4 years and I get a lot of back chat. It still hurts, this is the first time my husband has experienced it believe it or not! What's really getting to me is neither of us have a clue who he is. Never seen him before. I'm worried there will be online backlash again like there is every time.
This was my second incident this week. The first was a threat from my neighbour.
We are still trying to relocate but have to wait on council housing. Area scans have to be made to make sure its suitable. There have been several properties available but they have always fallen through. A scan is being done for a small town. There are only 2500 people there. I hope if it goes through it'll be safe. The constant stress of everything is running me down.
Yesterday was not a good day. I was shopping with my husband whilst our kids were at their grandparents. We are happily walking through the shop and this guy shouts profanities at us. He was telling his daughter to "keep away from that paedo". I'm used to this, it's been over 4 years and I get a lot of back chat. It still hurts, this is the first time my husband has experienced it believe it or not! What's really getting to me is neither of us have a clue who he is. Never seen him before. I'm worried there will be online backlash again like there is every time.
This was my second incident this week. The first was a threat from my neighbour.
We are still trying to relocate but have to wait on council housing. Area scans have to be made to make sure its suitable. There have been several properties available but they have always fallen through. A scan is being done for a small town. There are only 2500 people there. I hope if it goes through it'll be safe. The constant stress of everything is running me down.
Oh SallyBlue that’s really crap. Living with that kind of stress must be awful. Hope today is a better day for you x
Sally blue
That's awful, some people are ignorant, what is that even going to achieve!?
It's all part of it I'm afraid, a few good days then some bad, I really hope it gets better at some point where I can go for weeks or even months without feeling crap but I'm not sure about that unfortunately!
Please rise above the idiots of this world and stay strong, you're doing so well xx
That's awful, some people are ignorant, what is that even going to achieve!?
It's all part of it I'm afraid, a few good days then some bad, I really hope it gets better at some point where I can go for weeks or even months without feeling crap but I'm not sure about that unfortunately!
Please rise above the idiots of this world and stay strong, you're doing so well xx
Thanks ladies. Unfortunately things have got worse. Due to my husbands issues (he was dismissed without pay and had to wait 6 weeks for universal credit leaving him in £700 or rent arrears last year) out housing applications are being suspended until we pay it off. On benefits (I'm on job seekers hes on universal credit) our income after rent is under £600 a month. We have 2 kids, council tax, electricity, gas, the usual bills. It wont be paid off for years. We are in a rural area, getting work is almost impossible due to his conviction. His last employer called a vigilante group to harass him after they told him, to "bleep off".
I cant stay here anymore. I am terrified yet there is no one to help. I dont want to separate from my husband, I would like us to live together as a family but I cant see any other option.
I cant stay here anymore. I am terrified yet there is no one to help. I dont want to separate from my husband, I would like us to live together as a family but I cant see any other option.
I meant to say the £600 is to cover both homes as he can't live in our home and his 1 bed flat is far too small for us to join him.
Hi I am so sorry to hear about the tough time you are people are just so quick to judge without thinking about the whole picture.
This is one of my big fears and husband isn't charged yet but I know it will be everywhere and everyone will have something to say as was very well known by so many. So called friends will be the first I no as they dont speak now about from behind my back never asked me what's has gone on just listened to others.
Can I ask what to do mean by area checks on going to be moving and was hoping yo soon but if husband charged will he only be allowed in certain areas.
Take care xx
This is one of my big fears and husband isn't charged yet but I know it will be everywhere and everyone will have something to say as was very well known by so many. So called friends will be the first I no as they dont speak now about from behind my back never asked me what's has gone on just listened to others.
Can I ask what to do mean by area checks on going to be moving and was hoping yo soon but if husband charged will he only be allowed in certain areas.
Take care xx
Hi Stardust. I am not sure which area you live in but here in Scotland yes there are only certain areas he can live in. He cannot be within a certain distance of a school, youth centre, park (distance depends on region), children in the care system and he cannot live within close proximity of other offenders. An Enviromental scan is preformed by either the local council or police. Sometimes both or even criminal justice social work if still on license. As far as I am aware it doesn't apply to mortgaged/purchased/private rent but I cant be certain.