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Stardust

Member since
November 2018

54 posts

Posted Sun June 23, 2019 7:57pmReport post

Evening all I was just wondering if there was anybody on who's case isn't about images but is about more than that. If so did you stay with your partner. I have chose to stay with mine just see if anyone in similar situation xx

Sillyac

Member since
June 2019

56 posts

Posted Sun June 23, 2019 10:23pmReport post

Hi Stardust.

Hope you’re doing ok considering?

I believe all our situation vary in some way or form and choosing to stay with your husband shows how strong you are, even if you might not always feel it. These situations cause so much hurt and uncertainty don’t they.

as for being more than images, it would depend what else the police are investigating.



i believe we all feel the same about the timescales of the investigations and for some of us, the lack of communication and information.



Hold in there x

Dottie

Member since
June 2019

236 posts

Posted Sun June 23, 2019 11:29pmReport post

Hi Stardust,

My husband is being investigated for images and possibly grooming as he was chatting with a 17 yr old which I believed to be legal as you can marry at 16. He was told by the duty solicitor when He was first arrested that he is looking at a prison sentence. I like you are still hoping to stay with my husband and sort this out.

I wish you well as we try and move forward. Xx

Mabel

Member since
June 2019

208 posts

Posted Mon June 24, 2019 2:36pmReport post

Hi again Dottie,

yes my partner was caught by a vigilante group. He was chatting to &

arranged to meet with a 14 year old girl, it was in a town far away from where we live and it was not live streamed, one saving grace!

I don’t know the full details, I don’t really want to. He said all the communications were on his phone and he wasn’t looking or downloading any pictures.

I don’t know how he got into this chat room, or why. He does have a porn addiction it appears, tho I suspect he’s been looking at porn for years and just kept it a secret.

We are still together as a family, he is a very good hard working man.

We are just carrying on every day, one day at a time. I think I said before it’s been a year since he was arrested.

I Find it hard to believe that your husband could go to jail for comminicating with a 17 year old, that seems very harsh, like you say you can marry at 16 years old!

Mabel x

Booboo

Member since
September 2018

22 posts

Posted Thu June 27, 2019 10:38pmReport post

Hi there my husbands 1st offence was talking to girls via Web cam using MSN that was back in 2009 his sentence was custodial, but I fought for us and our children to remain as a family and he returned to the family home once off of licence he was still in the SO register, and all was well or so I thought till April last year when we got knock number 2 which was for downloading images, again he received a custodial sentence and we are now separated as I can't put my boys or myself though any risk of this again, and also as it went too press our safety if he was to come back to live here would not be good as there is too may vigilanty groups going around,