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Karina B

Member since
August 2023

5 posts

Hi everyone, I'm 2.5 weeks in to this horrible situation. I've left my partner of 5 years but grieving for my life as I knew it. The heartbreak, betrayal, dishonesty homesickness - I need some professional help. I found who I think is a good counsellor but they are on leave and can't start for a month. Please can anyone suggest who I can talk to until then?

Posted Tue August 8, 2023 4:33pmReport post

Deedee86

Member since
April 2023

54 posts

Hi Karina



big hugs to you. I can't recommend anyone but wanted to say so sorry you are here x it's four months for me. Still grieving. The first few weeks are horrific. Do you have anyone close you can disclose to for support, any trusted friends? Have you called the helpline x I haven't seen my parter since he was arrested, I felt instantly bereaved, I can empathise with what you are going through and feeling x I hope you can find some strength and comfort that it will get better xx

Posted Tue August 8, 2023 6:57pmReport post

Whisp

Member since
July 2023

7 posts

I suggest doing the self referral on the Stop SO website, they put me straight in touch with a counsellor within a few days and although I've since had to wait a while to get a second appointment that was just down to her availability. You could just ask for someone who has quick availability. I'm also considering contacting the Act Fast charity as they seem to offer some counselling and my one is otherwise really expensive. I feel like you though that I just need it so urgently, I'm 4 weeks post knock and still reeling. Take care xx

Posted Tue August 8, 2023 9:06pmReport post

Karina B

Member since
August 2023

5 posts

Please, I don't know the jargon. What is Stop SO and circles and how do I contact them??

I was just given the stop it now leaflet and the helpline always seems to be closed.

Thanks in anticipation xxx

Posted Thu August 10, 2023 2:08pmReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

541 posts

The circles ones can be difficult to find, because they have so many websites, Circles South East, Circles South West, Circles UK etc.

https://circles-uk.org.uk/circle-providers/

Not all services are available in all parts of the country. It is a bit hit and miss.

Posted Fri August 11, 2023 12:25pmReport post

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