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Child's father on pre charge bail for communication

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undeclared baggage

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August 2023

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Posted Tue August 29, 2023 11:03amReport post

So police raided the house while he was visiting and took his phone, laptop , his poetry book from when he was a child , about 30 pills of steroids he uses for angiodema and some other things that the officer said could be used to make a weapon. But they are nos cans for his air pistol.

Anyway they said they had no concern for our children but on his pre charge bail he isn't allowed unsupervised contact with anyone under 17

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He told me as soon as he was releases what he had done and I believe him completely, he was going through a divorce and a consent order from his ex , they had a daughter together too.

on his new fb profile he synced his contacts and there were people he knew and loads he didn't , he was using a false name as he just wanted the busines page.

A few young girls profiles came up that looked fake so he initially thought they were his daughters friends but noticed their ages as being 13 ,12 ,and 12. he reported them to fb because children under 15 are not allowed a profile. However they weren't deleted so because of his way he has undiagnosed ocpd he decided to question them. I think believing by their responses they might be his ex or friends, he asked for selfies, one sent and it looked digitally altered. so he asked the others but they said their phone wasnt working and they couldn't do a voice not or picture, but they were posting on fb.

so he decided to wind his ex up and he said his gf, me , loved to perform and act that he knew she hated, they just asked what that was.. then he asked thinking it was ok if it was vigilantes or police to do a twerking vid but all refused, he didn't believe it was sexual and thought as it was the back if it was his ex she might send one and he would know it was her.

He tried saying bits about where he was living and what he liked to do but nothing expect asking him for selfies and photos of his street address. Which he didn't send , he did send an old photo of his face hoping for a response but got none.

After 4 days he blocked and deleted them and never spoke again as he was sure it wasn't his ex but was police or vigilantes.

The police said he did do all this

He is in his 40s. he has never had any attraction to young girls. This was during his divorce and I myself had been targeted with vulgar messages and calls from someone unknown and reported to dwp maliciously, this was the only reason he stupidly questioned the girls .

I have full access to his phone now to stop him investigating further as he knows it's vigilantes as they keep sending him emails from young girls with Snapchat addresses attached , I've seen these and his solicitor has them.



There are no indecent images on his phone or laptop . The pre bail conditions are killing him as he loves his boys . he asked the oic about the conditions and she said no way would they be dropped until she knew he wasn't a threat. his Solicitors are appealing as I write and also a complaint made about the search and the officer trying to paint him as a danger. He is the kindest person. My children especially the oldest are really struggling since the search which scared them and I think that's hurting their dad the most.

What is the outlook , they have already extended bail and it's killing him .



Thank you

Daffodil

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March 2022

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Posted Wed August 30, 2023 6:32amReport post

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Edited Tue October 24, 2023 9:12am