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Hi everyone,
i don't know what just happened! I'm pretty calm these days since I've been on HRT, but I've just had a run in with some oldish couple in a shop car park. They were so nasty to me about where I'd parked (a normal space next to them, but they didn't want to shut their car door, so I waited patiently). The woman then got out, shouted at me and hit my car (actually, my daughter's) with her hand as she went past.
normally, it wouldn't bother me, but I was infuriated, marched into the shop after her and proceeded to tell her off, which escalated into me shouting and swearing ????!!
i don't know what got into me, I mean yes, she was a nasty woman, but I lost it!
To make matters worse, it's the shop my daughter works in, although she wasn't working today, but her manager and colleagues know me.
I was shaking when I got home and had a good cry, and I'm so embarrassed. Has anyone else experienced their anger coming out like this? I thought I was handling everything but apparently not....
i don't know what just happened! I'm pretty calm these days since I've been on HRT, but I've just had a run in with some oldish couple in a shop car park. They were so nasty to me about where I'd parked (a normal space next to them, but they didn't want to shut their car door, so I waited patiently). The woman then got out, shouted at me and hit my car (actually, my daughter's) with her hand as she went past.
normally, it wouldn't bother me, but I was infuriated, marched into the shop after her and proceeded to tell her off, which escalated into me shouting and swearing ????!!
i don't know what got into me, I mean yes, she was a nasty woman, but I lost it!
To make matters worse, it's the shop my daughter works in, although she wasn't working today, but her manager and colleagues know me.
I was shaking when I got home and had a good cry, and I'm so embarrassed. Has anyone else experienced their anger coming out like this? I thought I was handling everything but apparently not....
Oh god yes, I swore at a random teenager and called him a wanker (he had been rude but I didn't need to be)
so ashamed of myself but was just SO ANGRY. Combination of menopause and keeping all this stuff in I think!
sorry it happened to you too
xx
so ashamed of myself but was just SO ANGRY. Combination of menopause and keeping all this stuff in I think!
sorry it happened to you too
xx
It's exactly that! Keeping this huge secret, not being able to share it with anyone. I haven't been so infuriated and shown it like that since I was a teenager!!
Sorry to hear it's happened to you too, but also glad I'm not alone x
Sorry to hear it's happened to you too, but also glad I'm not alone x
Oh lord yes!!! A woman in similar circumstances was rude to me and normally I'd have shrugged it off but ALL the anger came out and I told her to go f*** herself! I'd NEVER ever have spoken to anyone like that before.
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Whether or not we are in these circumstances people in general will only take so much and no one is perfect. Sometimes we just have to say that's life. People everywhere will make assumptions judgements doesn't mean they are right xx
This makes interesting reading and certainly struck a cord with me.
https://www.pacesconnection.com/blog/how-to-release-emotions-stuck-in-your-body?reply=509528241961581924
https://www.pacesconnection.com/blog/how-to-release-emotions-stuck-in-your-body?reply=509528241961581924