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Its been 13 months since the knock. I have stuck by my oh, supported him, helped him get a flat. However my children have always have and always will come first they are my world n my priority. I had a meeting with sw n she said she dont think he will be able to move back until my youngest is at least 18 (another 6 yrs) this is really hard to hear as all we have all wanted is to have our family back.
Im feeling so confused as to what to do, my oh mental health is very low, very lonely missing us all, suicidal thoughts, i love him and want to help him, but i cant drop everything n go running as my children need me and like u say i will always put them first. My question is would or have any of you stay in a relationship with him knowing u are going to have to be living apart for another 6years at least. I dont what the charges are as of yet am currently waiting for police/claires law to disclose everything to me so i can use that to help make a decision. Im scared that he may follow thru with tge suicidal thoughts.
Sorry for the long waffly post.
Im feeling so confused as to what to do, my oh mental health is very low, very lonely missing us all, suicidal thoughts, i love him and want to help him, but i cant drop everything n go running as my children need me and like u say i will always put them first. My question is would or have any of you stay in a relationship with him knowing u are going to have to be living apart for another 6years at least. I dont what the charges are as of yet am currently waiting for police/claires law to disclose everything to me so i can use that to help make a decision. Im scared that he may follow thru with tge suicidal thoughts.
Sorry for the long waffly post.