NFA after 2 1/2 years
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Hi all, so after getting the knock in March 2021 and literally hearing nothing and having no progress for 2 1/2 years my husband has been sent an email from the police and solicitor that there will be no further action.
what does this mean? Im
aware that there will be no repercussions and no conviction but does it mean that's no iioc were found on the devices or there may have been some but they weren't cat a,b or c?
Was normal porn found and that is ok?
Obviously I am grateful that for mine and my boys sake that this will now not have any baring on our lives and a black cloud has been lifted from my head as the fear of this getting out and losing potentially family and friends and that burden has led to depression and health problems for me.
our marriage hasn't survived the 2 1/2 years as the waiting and not knowing how bad this was going to turn out to be has honestly been horrendous. I am not able to trust him as he hid a porn addiction from me for years and years.
I have spent the last years in most of your shoes, and I am grateful that NFA was found so please don't think I am being smug, this was not something I had prepared for and any advice would be much appreciated.
sending lots of love to you all, I am far from moving on with this and has affected my
life also xxx
what does this mean? Im
aware that there will be no repercussions and no conviction but does it mean that's no iioc were found on the devices or there may have been some but they weren't cat a,b or c?
Was normal porn found and that is ok?
Obviously I am grateful that for mine and my boys sake that this will now not have any baring on our lives and a black cloud has been lifted from my head as the fear of this getting out and losing potentially family and friends and that burden has led to depression and health problems for me.
our marriage hasn't survived the 2 1/2 years as the waiting and not knowing how bad this was going to turn out to be has honestly been horrendous. I am not able to trust him as he hid a porn addiction from me for years and years.
I have spent the last years in most of your shoes, and I am grateful that NFA was found so please don't think I am being smug, this was not something I had prepared for and any advice would be much appreciated.
sending lots of love to you all, I am far from moving on with this and has affected my
life also xxx
Thank you Lee
This is great news for you. I hope you can get disclosure from your partner if there was anything he did that caused the knock in the first place.
my ex had and NFA six years ago and I believed that was the end of it all. He wasn't honest with me then and I beat myself up that I didn't listen to my gut instinct of not trusting him... fast forward six years hes now on bail and he's managed to ruin everything we've worked for. I'm so angry at him and disappointed in myself for taking him back. Hes still in denial unfortunately. The trust was gone six years ago but I was too afraid to acknowledge what that meant for our relationship xx
my ex had and NFA six years ago and I believed that was the end of it all. He wasn't honest with me then and I beat myself up that I didn't listen to my gut instinct of not trusting him... fast forward six years hes now on bail and he's managed to ruin everything we've worked for. I'm so angry at him and disappointed in myself for taking him back. Hes still in denial unfortunately. The trust was gone six years ago but I was too afraid to acknowledge what that meant for our relationship xx
That's great news for you and your kids. Thank you for sharing.
I hope you're able to put everything behind you and get on with your life in peace
xxx
I hope you're able to put everything behind you and get on with your life in peace
xxx
I'm worried that my ex will get nfa because I don't want him to get away with it.
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