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Dragonmama

Member since
November 2022

251 posts

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Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2558 posts

Posted Tue September 19, 2023 4:17pmReport post

Big hug xxxxxx

Cherry

Member since
January 2023

107 posts

Posted Tue September 19, 2023 4:49pmReport post

I'm sending you so much love that's awful I'm wondering if any of these SW have any compassion at all it's cruel it's like they get a kick out of seeing us suffer we aren't responsible for what our loved ones did but they treat us like we were part of it. Xx

K4

Member since
October 2022

612 posts

Posted Tue September 19, 2023 5:03pmReport post

Big big hugs to you xxx

1979

Member since
April 2022

3 posts

Posted Tue September 19, 2023 5:53pmReport post

Big hugs xxx

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1005 posts

Posted Wed September 20, 2023 8:09amReport post

I'm so sorry that you're having a rough time with them again. Do you have anyone who you trust to go with you to meetings?



When you say that they've twisted the answers you've given is that during the assessment or in their reports? From my experience of being misquoted on reports that had already been sent to other agencies I know how frustrating it is and I will probably ask for conversations to be recorded differently when I go back to them. It's almost like they leave it so long between the meeting and reports that their notes don't make any sense to them so they try to fill in the gaps with what they think should be there xxx

Melody8

Member since
March 2023

8 posts

Posted Wed September 20, 2023 2:11pmReport post

Honestly just and stay strong. You will get through this.

Tell them you are being tormented through all this and all you want to do is focus on your children. There are affecting your mental health tenfold.



you will get through this I promise xx