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Anxious mummy

Member since
February 2023

99 posts

Posted Sat September 23, 2023 5:42pmReport post

Hi. My OH has his first magistrates court appearance on Wed to enter his plea. We aren't together and he has asked if I am coming. I really don't want to. I think it would be too stressful and wonder if its part of his strategy with the judge to look like I am supporting him. When he has been nothing but a nightmare for the last six months. What typically happens at these first hearings? Are they quite short and factual anyway?

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

766 posts

Posted Sat September 23, 2023 6:19pmReport post

Hi Anxious, I attended magistrates court with my person but remained in the waiting room when he went in. He met with his solicitor before he went into the court room and they talked through the plea. My person only had to give his name etc and to tell them he was pleading guilty. The prosecution outlined what had happened and his solicitor asked for the case to be sent to crown court. It lasted no longer than 30 minutes and was possibly as short as 20 minutes.

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

276 posts

Posted Sat September 23, 2023 7:48pmReport post

I have been to all appearances as oh has pleaded not guilty its been very short and not much detail at all, last Tuesday was supposed to be trial but it got adjourned as other cases were ongoing we now have to wait until November

JulieM

Member since
July 2023

76 posts

Posted Sat September 23, 2023 11:43pmReport post

I accompanied my now ex for his plea hearing in Magistrates. We got to the courthouse a bit early to wait for his solicitor, and had a quick half hour talking with him about the pleas. My ex discussed some discrepancies with the CPS evidence, so he ended up pleading guilty to some charges and no plea to a few others. Thankfully there weren't many people in the public gallery, and they didn't appear to be journalists. He had three older women magistrates presiding like matriarchs! The hearing was short, about half an hour, and they seemed concerned about his bail conditions, but because his charges were non-contact, they were pretty lenient. They did decide it had to go to Crown Court. This was also when we found out he had been chatting to an undercover police officer, not a father of a young girl.

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

358 posts

Posted Mon October 2, 2023 8:41pmReport post

How did the plea hearing go? We have ours coming up in a couple of weeks, nervous and wondering whether to go or not. Wanting to show support for my oh but not sure if it counts as support at this stage or whether I'd just be traumatising myself

Anxious mummy

Member since
February 2023

99 posts

Posted Mon October 2, 2023 11:06pmReport post

According to my OH is was really quick. I didn't go as I couldn't handle the stress of actually being there.