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This time next week my partner will be in court for his sentencing and I feel sick with worry. It's been 2 years and nearly 11 months since the knock ( ridiculous how we wait so long). I'm staying with my partner, we've been together over 30 years and I'm terrified if he gets custodial. I will be in the court room with him to show my support and I've written a character reference and he's wrote a letter to the judge. He's had a PSR which recommended a 2 year suspended sentence but obviously I'm thinking the worst. To all the ladies facing court soon I'm sending a big supportive hug
Will be thinking of you on Wednesday Louise, it's a really tough time and I know how I will feel when the time eventually comes. The long wait is torture, but at least you will know where you are after Wednesday. I hope it goes as well as can be expected and the media aren't there. I am in a similar situation to you, 25 years together and staying by him. Such a tough journey after a very happy marriage. Sending a big hug.
Thank you love, it's so tough isn't it and like you been together a long time and a very happy relationship with two grown up children ( at least I won't have SS involvement). It's been a very rough and horrible 2 and a half years and I've had lots of tears. I'm a different person now. Full of anxiety and little hope and my biggest fear apart from prison is media reporting, I'm dreading it
Louise
I hope it goes as well as it possibly can a d hope its non custodial
I will be thinking of you both, the next several days will be really tough but remember you ha e come this far and will get through it, this is the final part of the horrendous journey but at least you will know what the outcome is no matter how difficult, sending strength and hugs xx
I hope it goes as well as it possibly can a d hope its non custodial
I will be thinking of you both, the next several days will be really tough but remember you ha e come this far and will get through it, this is the final part of the horrendous journey but at least you will know what the outcome is no matter how difficult, sending strength and hugs xx
Louise
Will be thinking of you next week, I been married over 30 years and I also stayed.
I went into court also, unfortunately we made the media, the few weeks that followed was dreadful. But It disappear very quickly. Yes it still on Google, we did try a few months ago to take it down but no luck so far.
We have had no problems thankfully and like you we have grown children. We have lost my family members, but when I look back at my life, they were never properly there before all this.
You got this take care
Sending virtual hugs
Anne
Will be thinking of you next week, I been married over 30 years and I also stayed.
I went into court also, unfortunately we made the media, the few weeks that followed was dreadful. But It disappear very quickly. Yes it still on Google, we did try a few months ago to take it down but no luck so far.
We have had no problems thankfully and like you we have grown children. We have lost my family members, but when I look back at my life, they were never properly there before all this.
You got this take care
Sending virtual hugs
Anne
will be thinking of you next week and hoping your OH doesnt get a custodial sentance, sending you hugs
Thank you ladies, I joined this forum the day after the knock and I was such a mess. I had a breakdown and was off work for a few months. This forum was a lifeline in those first few weeks, I met some wonderful women who I now know in real life and they are a huge support. This changes you forever and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. The limbo is horrific and your brain goes into overdrive thinking the worst scenarios, I actually can't believe I've made it this far!
We will be with you and here whatever the outcome. Sending strength to you all x
I know how difficult and frightening this time will be for you as you hope for the best and plan for the worst. I'll be thinking of you over this next week and hoping for the best possible outcome.
Hi Louise
I am in exactly the same boat as you - sentencing for my OH is on Wed too. Its just hideous waiting and worrying so I really feel your pain x
I am in exactly the same boat as you - sentencing for my OH is on Wed too. Its just hideous waiting and worrying so I really feel your pain x