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Happy Friday check in x we have all survived another week and I hope it has been kind to you all x
A pretty uneventful week for me to be honest but work has kept me busy, it has turned so cold the last few days and we are at something like 45 days until xmas, I get paid monthly so 2 more paydays to go!
I might venture out tomorrow and get a few bits just little stocking fillers etc,
This year will be so different we are used to my son not been here but with my daughter and her boyfriend moving in to there own place I can totally understand them wanting there first one in their own place, but she feels guilty as it will be me and my eldest on our own bless her I have told her not to be silly and to enjoy there own little xmas without worrying, so this year it is going to be a first and I am thinking stuff it we can get a takeaway, I can be in my pjs with the heating on watching films is that so wrong?
I hope your weekend is kind to you all, love sent as always xx
Happy Friday check in x we have all survived another week and I hope it has been kind to you all x
A pretty uneventful week for me to be honest but work has kept me busy, it has turned so cold the last few days and we are at something like 45 days until xmas, I get paid monthly so 2 more paydays to go!
I might venture out tomorrow and get a few bits just little stocking fillers etc,
This year will be so different we are used to my son not been here but with my daughter and her boyfriend moving in to there own place I can totally understand them wanting there first one in their own place, but she feels guilty as it will be me and my eldest on our own bless her I have told her not to be silly and to enjoy there own little xmas without worrying, so this year it is going to be a first and I am thinking stuff it we can get a takeaway, I can be in my pjs with the heating on watching films is that so wrong?
I hope your weekend is kind to you all, love sent as always xx
We have made it through another week. Hooray!! I love Christmas but have always had the mindset that it's just a day and tried not be precious about it. Enjoy it the way you want to or don't :)
Happy friday.
We've had an outcome to our case today. I've just posted it on another thread x
We've had an outcome to our case today. I've just posted it on another thread x
Caggie, I definitely agree with you on your xmas comment x thank you
Sun x I just replied on your post, so pleased for you both xx
Sun x I just replied on your post, so pleased for you both xx
Hi, First time I've commented on the Friday check in so here goes........
I've had an ok week, got back to the gym and I know this helps my mental health. Also got my diagnosis for ADHD so started meds and my brain has calmed a little (OCD thinking about the case has lessened)
I have been angry with social media this week and the dark side of it as that's how my person got involved. I know he has to be held accountable but I'm also feel angry.
I spoke to Stop It now as I want to share my story anonymously, I really don't want any other parents and vulnerable adults to feel or go through what we have (or anyone, but I suppose my story goes on that journey) and if I can save one then that's a bonus.
Our journey should be over in a few weeks, Crown Court is looming. I'm worried about the press but I can't control that so I can only hope.
Wishing you a peaceful weekend
I've had an ok week, got back to the gym and I know this helps my mental health. Also got my diagnosis for ADHD so started meds and my brain has calmed a little (OCD thinking about the case has lessened)
I have been angry with social media this week and the dark side of it as that's how my person got involved. I know he has to be held accountable but I'm also feel angry.
I spoke to Stop It now as I want to share my story anonymously, I really don't want any other parents and vulnerable adults to feel or go through what we have (or anyone, but I suppose my story goes on that journey) and if I can save one then that's a bonus.
Our journey should be over in a few weeks, Crown Court is looming. I'm worried about the press but I can't control that so I can only hope.
Wishing you a peaceful weekend
I have actually started my Christmas shopping, thank you Upset Mum for the motivation. I'm determined that I will enjoy the buildup to christmas and am planning a couple of treats and outings for the Grandchildren.
I am going to be spending some of this weekend with my sisters so I have something nice to look forward to for the weekend.
My son is still struggling to find a job but at least he's not given up and is continuing to try. He gets interviews but always seems to be asked why he left his previous job and when he tells them the truth they turn him down.
I'm sending a big hug to all those that need one and thank you all for the love and support I get from here.
I am going to be spending some of this weekend with my sisters so I have something nice to look forward to for the weekend.
My son is still struggling to find a job but at least he's not given up and is continuing to try. He gets interviews but always seems to be asked why he left his previous job and when he tells them the truth they turn him down.
I'm sending a big hug to all those that need one and thank you all for the love and support I get from here.
Hi, hope you are all doing ok and had a good week. My husband had two appointments with social work this week for the criminal social work report. She was very judgemental and we aren't hopeful of a decent report but I suppose we just need to keep going. Hope you all have a good weekend. xx
Just x
Thank you for joining us all on the Friday check in x
You are incredibly strong so well done for posting xx
I hope the medication helps settle you this journey is just so difficult to deal with, but we are all here to offer support x
Thank you for joining us all on the Friday check in x
You are incredibly strong so well done for posting xx
I hope the medication helps settle you this journey is just so difficult to deal with, but we are all here to offer support x
First week back after half term done :)
Another six to go...not that I'm counting.
Planning a couple of Christmas shopping trips with my sister in the next couple of weeks. Trying to be positive about it cos it's going to happen.
Hope everyone has the best weekend they can x
Another six to go...not that I'm counting.
Planning a couple of Christmas shopping trips with my sister in the next couple of weeks. Trying to be positive about it cos it's going to happen.
Hope everyone has the best weekend they can x
Ocean x
Glad you are ok x
Your son will get there it may take time but he will x
Glad you are ok x
Your son will get there it may take time but he will x
Hi everyone. Week gone extremely quick but it's been an ok week. Think we've got our Christmas plans mapped out with the family, which is good.
I've even started writing a few cards out......
Son all good - I have missed him so much this week think as it's been the anniversary of his sentencing. I just wish he was home and irritating me, but hey ho these blips happen, we be brave and move on!
I've even started writing a few cards out......
Son all good - I have missed him so much this week think as it's been the anniversary of his sentencing. I just wish he was home and irritating me, but hey ho these blips happen, we be brave and move on!
Rachel x
You have got this , of course they will be judgemental they don't see it from our own point,
I read a quote today and wanted to share with you x
You might not be ok now, but one day everything will be better, take it one day at a time , you are going to have the strength to get through this! This is so important to remember xx
You have got this , of course they will be judgemental they don't see it from our own point,
I read a quote today and wanted to share with you x
You might not be ok now, but one day everything will be better, take it one day at a time , you are going to have the strength to get through this! This is so important to remember xx
Smile x
You nearly gave me a heart attack x
You nearly gave me a heart attack x
Upset - my dear friend..... I'm fine x please don't have a heart attack - I need you x
Dreadful week for us here. Person had to disclose to work and has been suspended, just devastating and we are all in tears. He's worked so hard at his career
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Inthemoment x
I am so sorry, sending hugs to you both xx
I am so sorry, sending hugs to you both xx
Ahh Webb89
My heart really does go out to you but never ever forget how amazing you are x
I am dreading xmas but at the same time I realize how important it is for my daughter to not have to worry, as a mum we just want to be there to pick up the pieces, and make everything ok but in doing that we have to sacrifice our own feelings no matter how difficult,
You will make the best of your own situation xx
What are you going to watch tomorrow?xx
My heart really does go out to you but never ever forget how amazing you are x
I am dreading xmas but at the same time I realize how important it is for my daughter to not have to worry, as a mum we just want to be there to pick up the pieces, and make everything ok but in doing that we have to sacrifice our own feelings no matter how difficult,
You will make the best of your own situation xx
What are you going to watch tomorrow?xx
Upset mum thank you! It sounds ridiculous but it's made us more anxious than a court appearance. I this is a great saying and will try to remember it. Thank you xx
Upset mum, yes we have to make best of our situation.
Going to see The Creator. Heard it is quite good. Crossing fingers. X
I did think at some point in December everyone should do a virtual party and have a drink for xmas. Everyone having a drink at the same time. And then sending a message to each other. The drink could be anything, tea, hot chocolate, Baileys vodka.....i could go on.....
Going to see The Creator. Heard it is quite good. Crossing fingers. X
I did think at some point in December everyone should do a virtual party and have a drink for xmas. Everyone having a drink at the same time. And then sending a message to each other. The drink could be anything, tea, hot chocolate, Baileys vodka.....i could go on.....
I'm up for it Webb!
A virtual drink count me in xx
Definitely a large Baileys for me!
I'm up for a virtual drink :) x
Right, the virual party will involve a xmas jumper or sparkly clothing and to have xmas music on. Lets have it on a Tuesday night as thats half way from the friday check in. What about Dec 13 th? I will remind everyone nearer the time. You can see i take xmas very seriously, lol.....
If that is ok and attendance is optional.....lets though see how many people we can get involved. I will put up a post nearer the time. I am hoping this will confirm that everyone is NOT alone and not alone at xmas. I know i have done some vitual book club that was well recieved so thinking on doing that on a monthly basis.
If that is ok and attendance is optional.....lets though see how many people we can get involved. I will put up a post nearer the time. I am hoping this will confirm that everyone is NOT alone and not alone at xmas. I know i have done some vitual book club that was well recieved so thinking on doing that on a monthly basis.
Hi everyone - great to hear everyone's news on here so thanks again Upset for being the convenor! As usual it's lovely to see any good and positive news but also a chance to send a hug to those who are struggling. I do that mentally as I read each post, even if I don't comment.
Lots of Christmas talk this week. I've no idea what we'll be doing as there are obviously big changes to our usual family gathering so it's probably just my OH and our son for the day and hopefully his children will come to us at some point around the Christmas holidays but we haven't been told when yet. I'm trying to tell myself that it's just a day and it doesn't matter really but after some lovely gatherings in the past I must admit I do feel a bit sad. I'm also a card writer and try to write a personal letter for each one but this year I'd have to be so careful what I write that I might just sign them and leave it at that.
As for this week - well, it turned out to be full of surprises as a friend invited me to go as her 'plus one' to a lunch at Glyndebourne, the opera house, as she's a member and this was a thank you to members for supporting them. I'm not an opera fan really, but I've seen a couple of productions there and actually enjoyed it. After lunch we were the audience for a dress rehearsal so had a great afternoon.
Then I heard that I'd won a ticket for Sunset Boulevard in London with Nicole Scherzinger in the lead. There's a weekly lottery where you say what days you can do and if you're pulled out of the hat you get a ticket for £30, so off I went to London where after awful weather the sun was shining and it was a real lift after so much rain. The show was absolutely amazing but not for anyone who holds the original production as a benchmark as this was a 'reimagining'. NS was so good, who'd have known she could act bonkers reclusive Hollywood star so well?! My seat would have cost £90 if I'd booked myself so I was well chuffed. (If anyone reading likes the theatre, this lottery plus some others, is c/o an app called TodayTix)
Enjoy today's sunshine everyone and sending you all a virtual wave and/or a hug (you choose) xx
Lots of Christmas talk this week. I've no idea what we'll be doing as there are obviously big changes to our usual family gathering so it's probably just my OH and our son for the day and hopefully his children will come to us at some point around the Christmas holidays but we haven't been told when yet. I'm trying to tell myself that it's just a day and it doesn't matter really but after some lovely gatherings in the past I must admit I do feel a bit sad. I'm also a card writer and try to write a personal letter for each one but this year I'd have to be so careful what I write that I might just sign them and leave it at that.
As for this week - well, it turned out to be full of surprises as a friend invited me to go as her 'plus one' to a lunch at Glyndebourne, the opera house, as she's a member and this was a thank you to members for supporting them. I'm not an opera fan really, but I've seen a couple of productions there and actually enjoyed it. After lunch we were the audience for a dress rehearsal so had a great afternoon.
Then I heard that I'd won a ticket for Sunset Boulevard in London with Nicole Scherzinger in the lead. There's a weekly lottery where you say what days you can do and if you're pulled out of the hat you get a ticket for £30, so off I went to London where after awful weather the sun was shining and it was a real lift after so much rain. The show was absolutely amazing but not for anyone who holds the original production as a benchmark as this was a 'reimagining'. NS was so good, who'd have known she could act bonkers reclusive Hollywood star so well?! My seat would have cost £90 if I'd booked myself so I was well chuffed. (If anyone reading likes the theatre, this lottery plus some others, is c/o an app called TodayTix)
Enjoy today's sunshine everyone and sending you all a virtual wave and/or a hug (you choose) xx
Rainyday
That sounds amazing and so glad you've had such lovely treats :)
That sounds amazing and so glad you've had such lovely treats :)
Rainyday x
Really pleased you have had some lovely outings, they sound amazing x
As for Christmas I am not stressing about it if it ends up with a takeaway and pjs then so be it no doubt it will ofcourse have a bottle ot 2 thrown in for good measure lol x
Glad your doing ok xx
Really pleased you have had some lovely outings, they sound amazing x
As for Christmas I am not stressing about it if it ends up with a takeaway and pjs then so be it no doubt it will ofcourse have a bottle ot 2 thrown in for good measure lol x
Glad your doing ok xx
Webb x
A fantastic idea I will put it on my calendar:-) and of course I will dust the xmas jumper off or may even treat my self to something sparkly but that will be more likely to be a bottle of sparkling wine lol x
A fantastic idea I will put it on my calendar:-) and of course I will dust the xmas jumper off or may even treat my self to something sparkly but that will be more likely to be a bottle of sparkling wine lol x
Webb count me in for a virtual Christmas drink.
Ocean your son will get there xx
Quiet week here which suits me just fine -starting to think about Christmas shopping now and trying to get myself organised but mostly failing.
Have a good weekend everyone lots of hugs and strength to you all xx
Ocean your son will get there xx
Quiet week here which suits me just fine -starting to think about Christmas shopping now and trying to get myself organised but mostly failing.
Have a good weekend everyone lots of hugs and strength to you all xx
I love the idea of the Christmas drink, thank you Webb for suggesting it. Count me in.
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Parkerpoo1 i hear you. One year my daughter had to work all over xmas and another one son was abroad for xmas. It is true i had the others but this is what i did. When my daughter was working she worked xmas eve and xmas day. So after her shift on xmas eve, we all stayed up and exchnaged presents then. We then had a Xmas dinner when she got home. We eat lunchtime but changed it to the evening. When my son was abroad we had a xmas dinner before he went. I wrapped one present each so we had a mini xmas before he went. Xmas was not the same but still had the memory. Is any of this possible with your boys? Is there local walking groups in your area. There are a lot where i live all over xmas as people are lonely at this time of year. Xmas is different for us anyway, no family gatherings as no one will spend time with my OH so i have tried to stay positve (not easy in know). X
Parkerpoo1 x
Its going to be difficult I know, this year will be so different for me also but I have decided to just have a day in my pjs and watch films, we have a visit xmas eve with my son I am truly grateful for that, you are more than welcome to message me , whatever you end up doing you will get through it x
Its going to be difficult I know, this year will be so different for me also but I have decided to just have a day in my pjs and watch films, we have a visit xmas eve with my son I am truly grateful for that, you are more than welcome to message me , whatever you end up doing you will get through it x
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Parkerpoo it is going to be difficult but really it is just a day and you can get through it in whatever way you want whether that's staying in your pj's and watching films or going out for a walk please don't forget we are all here for you and message me anytime xx
Parkerpoo I'm not sure if volunteering is your type thing but where I live there are charities and churches offering free Christmas dinners to those in need or those who would otherwise be alone. They provide a great day for those who attend and are always looking for volunteers.
SoTired x
Yay a dishwasher lucky you, hows the expensive face cream? ;-) so good to hear from you, hope you are all doing ok xx
Yay a dishwasher lucky you, hows the expensive face cream? ;-) so good to hear from you, hope you are all doing ok xx
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SoTired I'm living without a dishwasher at the moment and we can't really afford to buy one as OH has just lost his job, but I really miss having one!!! You've given me hope, I'm going to save a few pounds a week til the next black Friday sale and buy one then, I'll be exactly a year on too!