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lilypad2020

Member since
March 2022

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Posted Tue November 21, 2023 9:09amReport post

My brother got out of prison 10 days ago and he's living with my mum. Today I found out that he's following children on TikTok, as well as lots of only fan creators.

I'm in shock that he's being so brazen and I just don't know what to do. I know that I do need to do something and I plan on doing it but I know this information will crush my mum. She moved away from her home town so that she could make a new life for her and him to be safe and he's not giving any thought for that.

This has made me feel so disgusted. I don't want anything to do with him. I feel as though he has a sex addiction too due to following all of the only fans creators. Obviously this was bound to happen as the prison system offers little to no rehabilitation.

I feel so alone and heartbroken and I don't know where to turn.

Thanks for reading.

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1000 posts

Posted Tue November 21, 2023 9:52amReport post

Hi,

If you're sure it's an active account then you need to report it to the police as a possible breach of his SHPO. I'm not 100% sure of Tiktok terms of use but most social media don't allow those on the sor to have accounts so it might be worth reporting to them too if this is one of their terms.
I completely understand how devastating this will be for your mom but in this situation it's absolutely the right thing to do. If it's an old account or it's not a breach then it will be easy for the police to check and you will have set that boundary in place that you will report anything illegal or potentially illegal xxx