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GreenYellow

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T2021

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Posted Tue November 28, 2023 8:24pmReport post

Sending hugs.
I am too still struggling it has been 3 years and 4 months since the knock and we are still in limbo. No charges or sentencing yet.
I feel this has changed me. The shock of it. I will never be the same person again.

GreenYellow

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Distressed and pregnant

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Posted Tue November 28, 2023 9:10pmReport post

Hi,

we are 3 years and 4 months post knock and 2 years 10 months post sentencing. I feel it every day although differently to how I did at the beginning.
I think it's best to look at it in the same way that we recognise grief has stages and allow ourselves grace in our grieving of our lives, relationships and our past selves. I'm certainly not the same person I was before all of this.

I've recently self referred to circles for their programme and counselling because I have recognised that I'm struggling. I can update when I've had the counselling but initial signs are that I've made the right decision as the woman I've spoken to was very supportive and personable xxx

GreenYellow

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