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WeeWitch

Member since
June 2021

74 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 8:59amReport post

I have to go to the local police station this morning to make a statement re my son's suicide .

I have had such a poor experience with the police since the knock almost 3 years ago.

I don't want to talk about it

I don't want to talk about how my son would still be here if they hadn't dragged out their investigation which I have found out would have resulted in NFA.

Love to you all and also "your person" ,I send strength that you all emerge from this whole nightmare intact xxx

you are all so amazing and give me so much strength xx

Life feels over

Member since
September 2022

412 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 10:04amReport post

I can't imagine how difficult this experience will be for you and I'm sorry it is their expectation that you will endure this. Sending my love & strength. xx

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

274 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 10:24amReport post

Sending you strength and support at this time X

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1001 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 10:32amReport post

Sending you all the strength for today. I'm so sorry to read that it would have been nfa but instead you are now going through the loss of your son. If you can find the words to express this in your statement then it may help to hold the investigating officers to account. There is absolutely no need for them to drag things out in the way that they do, it is wrong for all involved xxx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2551 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 10:45amReport post

WeeWitch - again my heart reaches out to you. My beloved nephew took his life a few years ago and it's never easy dealing with the official side of a suicide, so very painful.

It must be especially difficult as you are dealing with the very people you feel pushed your son into taking his life.

I'm sure we will all be thinking about you.

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Blue Sky

Member since
February 2023

205 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 10:57amReport post

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Just want an end to it

Member since
October 2023

212 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 11:17amReport post

I'm so sorry you are having to do this. Have you got someone to go with you? I feel so angry for you, especially if you know it would of been NFA!



sending you strength, love and hugs

hpl111

Member since
November 2022

392 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 12:26pmReport post

I am so sorry, sending you lots of strength xx

K4

Member since
October 2022

611 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 2:47pmReport post

Oh this is so horrid for you to have to go through. I am so so so sorry Wee Witch.



sending you all the hugs and strength



x

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2403 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 4:33pmReport post

Sending strength and hugs to you WeeWitch thinking of you xx

Seaside

Member since
July 2022

560 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 5:27pmReport post

Oh weewitch my heart is breaking for you and I am sending you so much love and strength xxx

Alison20

Member since
March 2021

363 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 6:45pmReport post

I am thinking of you and sending strength, love and compassion your way.

Parkerpoo1

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July 2022

252 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 7:19pmReport post

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CornishTea

Member since
August 2019

91 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 7:59pmReport post

Thinking of you, I can't imagine how tough today must have been xxx

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

766 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 8:12pmReport post

My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling, the whole situation is just so heartbreaking. Sending you lots of love

rainyday52

Member since
April 2023

447 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 8:49pmReport post

Much love from me too - I hope you can feel your lovely son close to you and you find the right words to convey to the police how much your heart aches for him and how much their procedures (or lack of) contributed to the choice to end his suffering X

SH9231

Member since
August 2023

52 posts

Posted Mon December 4, 2023 8:57pmReport post

Thinking of you today xx

Pippin

Member since
May 2023

44 posts

Posted Tue December 5, 2023 6:28pmReport post

My heart breaks for you, I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Tue December 5, 2023 10:14pmReport post

WeeWitch,

I have no words, I'm so truly sorry for your loss. Sending all my love, please take care & I hope you have an abundance of support xxxx

A.

Member since
April 2023

43 posts

Posted Tue December 5, 2023 10:39pmReport post

My heart breaks for you. I am so so so sorry for your loss. - Sending hugs. Take care x x

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SummerSun23

Member since
September 2023

21 posts

Posted Tue December 5, 2023 10:47pmReport post

I cannot begin to imagine what you're going through. Sending you strength and love to get you through this most difficult experience xx